NO NO NO DONT LISTEN TO THESE!!! They are not an avoidant. they just aren’t that into you. You are NOT a therapist. Do not try to diagnose someone. If they wanted to be with you, they would be with you avoidant or not. Avoidance will come out in times of seriousness
2026-09-10 11:34:53
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🧊 :
Cant believe i received all of these from one person
2026-08-17 00:31:23
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Callsign:Cat :
It’s better, as the avoidant, to not drag the other person through my issues. It was never about my partner not being enough. I was never enough and that’s ok, I realize that, but I also realize that the other person will genuinely so much better off with someone more suited for them, no matter how much I love them. It’s because I love them so much that I’m willing to let them find someone who can be the person they need
2026-08-17 13:13:25
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LivingMyLife :
But I do deserve better
2026-08-17 17:13:37
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🖤 :
“you deserve better” why cant YOU change to be better for me bro
2026-08-19 19:51:29
10
yasmin :
he said all this and got in a new relationship less than 2 weeks after 🤗🤗
2026-08-17 04:42:28
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jacob winters :
I got 3 out of the 5 am I cooked?
2026-08-18 13:17:33
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M_ardizzone :
Okay I’m dating one of these now I need help. I love her to death but she keeps doing number 4 how do I get her to open up.
2026-08-18 01:54:18
3
_____ :
his parents didn’t want us together for a specific reason out of my control. he told me he wanted us to be together so bad but it was just that one thing stopping him. like he would say things like i was never the problem and he never lost feelings for me. no contact now for like 4 months not a peep i removed him from socials and we walk past each other in person. what dat meannnnnnn
2026-08-18 03:28:06
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人々 :
I have all the patients for all this but ig she doesn't, she went to her ex back
2026-08-17 16:05:10
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blount_man_ :
She said 3, 4, 5 and ended up with a dude I never knew about
2026-08-18 06:12:05
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phone/kid stan :
5 out of fucking 5, must be a professional
2026-09-07 09:43:51
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(R)ULA :
What abt I cant be in a relationship where my heart isnt fully in it😹✌🏾
2026-08-17 18:28:15
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m41xlyf3 :
And he said every single one 😂
2026-08-18 02:33:53
1
Reuben :
Yeah so many videos say this but what does that mean for me? Does that mean shes done with me or does that mean she still wnats a relationship with me at some point in the future
2026-08-17 02:49:11
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sarah :
oh wow these are eye opening 😭
2026-08-18 23:50:13
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Callsign:Cat :
These quotes are less “lies” and more simplistic ways to say what we’re feeling. The “what they actually mean” are the lengthy explanations of said quotes. I hate that I’m demonized for the way my brain thinks in survival
2026-08-17 13:15:40
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Lola N :
so good!!!
2026-08-17 20:25:01
2
:
she broke up with me and said she wanted her peace back what that mean doe?
2026-09-05 13:20:24
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m :
u probably do deserve better anyways 😭
2026-08-28 04:53:53
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Yad :
I feel attacked.
2026-08-27 10:59:02
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Chris :
Its ggs huh
2026-08-20 18:17:42
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Jada Dee 🎀 :
Omg so my ex was a manchild and wasn’t ready to bear the emotional capacity when challenges came in the relationship, just thought it was gonna be all easy breezy for him
2026-08-20 14:42:46
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Lumi :
5
2026-08-19 17:02:11
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