@marilyncalifano: Never knew how triggering it was to ask people if or when they want kids until this experience. People ask us all the time and we just say “we’re trying!😅” but it sucks and hurts to talk about all.the.time. I’ve learned to be so much more mindful around this topic and pro tip - you should be too 💕 #pregnancyloss #miscarriage #ttc #ttcjourney #pregnancylossawareness
I started to say “when they stop dying” and that usually shuts them up
2026-09-16 15:15:35
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Beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeebo :
My response to that question is “whenever my body decides it wants to keep one alive” 😅
2026-08-17 13:25:27
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LadyClarkBar :
I feel this in my soul. I have lost 3 this year and people have told me that I don't want my daughter and a baby sibling to have a big age gap, so I need to hurry. Like, I should be having a baby next week. and again in november. and again in April...
2026-08-17 12:32:25
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ashleyyyyyymarie :
Worst club to be a part of. You’re not alone 🤍 I had someone tell me “she’s getting old! You better give her a sibling soon” a month after we had our 5th consecutive loss.
2026-09-09 02:59:19
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savvy :
i’m right there with you.🫶🏼
2026-08-18 02:21:08
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kri :
I am so so sorry Marilyn 🩷 sending you lots of love and hugs
2026-08-17 04:47:46
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izzyandthor | melissa :
The week after my d&c I had two random people are the park ask when I’m going to have another one 😩 why is that small talk!
2026-10-01 15:10:57
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smoreson :
I’m so sorry. I know the feeling
2026-08-18 01:57:24
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breanna | sahm girl mom 🌼 :
I get the “when are you giving your husband a boy” even though I miscarried our boy and are now having our third girl. 🤍
2026-08-18 00:13:52
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Desiiii :
I feel this, I’m so sorry you’re going thru it. Baby #2 just put me in the hospital for internal bleeding and rupturing my right tube which caused emergency surgery. 3 days after surgery I had someone asking me when we’re having another 🤪
2026-08-17 16:54:14
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storieswithsandra :
100% So sorry for your losses.
2026-08-17 19:08:41
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Elsie :
Sending you so much love. 🤍
2026-08-17 03:59:28
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sjbrixo :
5x miscarriages and the “when are you having a baby” will always kill me
2026-08-17 04:30:00
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Mady Louk :
I’m so sorry it is a different kind of pain to lose a baby! Trust the process healing can take a long time. You’re doing amazing sending love!🫶
2026-08-17 14:08:04
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Nikka Vergara :
Hang in there mama. Your baby will come. God is faithful. He sees and hears you 🤍
2026-08-17 19:13:53
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JFG :
This always gutted me. Everyone would keep asking and some even asked after my first miscarriage, knowing I had just lost my baby.
2026-08-17 04:31:49
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TSM :
Hang in there mama ♥️
2026-08-17 05:26:06
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Poppylist Baby Registry :
We’re sending so much love mama ♥️
2026-08-17 17:20:45
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AB :
Same !!! Sending hugs to you!!
2026-09-08 21:06:00
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Emily :
And then they try to guilt trip you if you say, “idk or we may just be one in done”
2026-10-13 20:14:18
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Lizziekittock :
Felt this in my soul…❤️🩹🪽
2026-10-15 01:16:20
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user175848348 :
Felt 😔
2026-10-02 14:58:28
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Mili :
Omg this.. I’ve had 4 back to back losses and get this question weekly 😀😀😀
2026-09-28 22:35:21
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Jade Marie :
I finally got pregnant after 7 years of trying. it resulted in a 24 week loss. idk if im ever going to be okay again.
2026-09-20 16:33:32
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it’s me :
🩷 u
2026-08-18 04:40:26
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