@kators88: I have seen this quote all over with no attribution. If you know the author, let me know so I can credit them please. #sacrifice #motherhood #eldestdaughter #mothers #feminism
it's easier to honor a sacrifice that you dont have to make
2026-08-17 20:44:06
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Kators :
I think this is especially true for eldest daughters
2026-08-17 20:41:47
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khristasimpson :
I regularly watch you videos. Your man is fucking amazing, and so are you!!!!
2026-08-19 01:34:50
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eliana :
a lot of us had moms and grandmas pull us aside and directly issue us the warning to not become them too
2026-08-17 21:19:25
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sophia hutchinson :
It’s not the brain working differently. It’s programming.
2026-08-17 20:37:29
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cave.lady :
I think my daughter was 4 when she told me she never wanted to be a mom because she’d have to do everything and never get to do what she wanted. Talk about a wake up call.
2026-08-17 21:20:33
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The Dark Side :
I feel like he’s still confused.
2026-08-20 15:24:00
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Yvonne Meidlinger :
if men see it as a virtue, then why aren't they trying to copy it?
2026-08-18 13:14:47
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cjohn :
Whoa, I’ve often felt that sad pulling away from my mom and and underlying frustration with my mom that I don’t like because I love her, dearly, but I saw the sacrifices and all she did and yes I was agitated by it for years, especially as a young adult. I know my girls already feel it or will soon and it breaks my heart
2026-08-20 14:21:34
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Lindsay :
You wanna know why? Because daughters are forced to help take up the slack that the mother can't carry all by yourself. That is why we view them as a warning. We learn what not to do or what we won't accept.
2026-08-17 22:30:04
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astralwhisper7 :
my mom ironed my dad's clothes every single morning and I vowed to never do that. I won't even so his laundry. he's a big boy. (and thankfully he agrees)
2026-08-20 16:44:49
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user8197519165832 :
Men get to enjoy all the holidays, no planning, watch sports, drink, don’t move from the couch. Women have to holiday shop for gifts,
2026-08-17 23:06:47
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M :
"weird how our brains work so differently" no, its social programming. its not biology
2026-08-18 04:48:16
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TheHighPriestess2222 :
Yes. I look at how my grandmother and mother worked themselves to the bone and their husbands being such shit men and I’ve vowed never to be that.
2026-08-17 20:35:36
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Pip :
I am always suprised at how suprised he is to everything she tells him. Like damn, you didn’t think about any of that at all ever? 😭 No hate, it’s just baffling.
2026-08-18 16:04:48
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EugenaWashington :
My cousins thinks his SAH Mom is a great women- Meanwhile when I was 10 she pulled me aside crying begging me to always have my own money and not to be trapped like her
2026-08-18 02:59:32
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picklegirl :
my mom gave up her most prized possession, her own miniature schnauzer just to move away with my dad. He didn't hesitate to leave us behind but she still thinks about that dog she loved so much
2026-08-17 23:04:11
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Connieblu :
I never want my daughter to see me struggle (not shower, collapse on the couch, no sleep, not eat) and that’s okay or normal. I want her to see it’s 50/50.
2026-08-19 04:47:51
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ctrl_alt_plot :
Men experience their sacrifice in theory (ie. Gonna protect the family from this potential threat that hasn’t happened yet) but women experience their sacrifice in practice (the daily emotional and mental labor). And the world treats it as equal, whereas men may or may not actually have to make that sacrifice, but women must participate in it
2026-08-18 00:29:12
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HazelBlue :
Yes! Men see women as someone to sacrifice so that the men can thrive.
2026-08-18 09:37:00
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Black Tea :
It is slavery
2026-08-18 04:02:49
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Alex Rhea Tarot :
ITS NOT BIOLOGY IS PROGRAMMING
2026-08-18 03:29:13
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maverick_jam_ :
Working mothers are expected to work as if they didn’t have kids, but parent as if they don’t work.
2026-08-18 02:25:30
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i.luv_tea :
I'm tired of men saying: "My mom did it and she never complained!"... You watched your mom slave away, your entire life, destroying her body and mental health and THAT is what you take from it?!
2026-08-18 11:44:44
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👍🏾 :
Because mum's protect their sons and don't tell them how awful their lives have been, then they sit and tell their daughters NEVER GET MARRIED.
2026-08-18 11:55:10
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