@tengkuhaddy: Moga ayah terus kuat okay ?

Seroja/Sarah :

i love my dad but sometimes i wished he didnt do the things he did because the trauma is larger than the love and im an adult now , i look at him everyday with sympathy but i look at myself with hatred because i was incapable of fully forgiving my own father and people around me kept reminding me that it was his first time living but i was a child

mewmew :

entahlah weh, I'm also in your situation yet even when I'm live with my father, he still look irresponsible to the fact that I had to step up and try to clear his name against my siblings yet deep down I know that he is still irresponsible against his children. tak bagi duit nafkah and all my siblings turn to my mother and I'm the only one who stay, now I'm working and paying off my uni fee

dannyscelyn :

Pls habiskan masa dengan dia. Dengar cerita dia 😌🥲

a :

love him while still have

rose :

i tahu rasa ni, but deep down i know yg they try untuk berdamai dgn diri sendiri. they just tktahu mcmna nk berlembut dan sayang diri sendiri sbb tkpernah cerita penat, sedih dn luka sendiri. salah ya salah, but as seorang anak apa la sgt nk maafkn dia. i pernah jadi anak yg pemarah sbb my dad pun pemarah, but i nampak 1 side yg org tkpernah hargai apa yg dia rasa. i ambil peluang, slow down and minta maaf, cerita masing ii punya perasaan. bukan tu shj, i berdoa since i kecil sampai la besar Allah lembutkn hati my dad. lepas tksampai 3 tahun Allah kabulkn doa tu, abah meninggal. now i sedih yg i tkda masa dgn my dad, and i tahu yg dia selama ni hanya penat dan perlu org faham perasaan dia sbg lelaki. lepas dia perlahan berubah, Allah ambil balik, lps dia tkda i knew yg hidup dia terlampau penat dgn org sekitar yg tkpernah hargai dia. ni just cerita i, i just harap semua org dapat settle down their family conflict, sbb kita lahir dari our parents. my dad ckp seburuk apa pun org tu, buat la baik dkt dia. tkpernah rugi, sbb yg membalas hanya Allah bukan manusia.

ProjexByNora Singapore :

😭Break this generational curse. Tok Tak didik his own and he can’t do it for his own kids … Now up to us ….

🖤 :

If abah korang dah start nak bina hubungan baik, walaupun korang tak dapat nak lupa. Jangan tolak, sebab Allah just bagi masa untuk kenal, minta maaf, senyum& lepas tu dia akan tarik. Tapi tak diapply oleh haruan makan anak.

𝔣𝔦𝔮𝔞𝔯𝔟𝔞𝔫𝔨𝔰 :

This song :(

Kacipfatimahkuat🧬 :

Sometimes, even anak dah besar pun, we still rasa tersepit dalam both situation. Rasa anak tak guna untuk satu pihak, and anak yg taat utk satu pihak lagi. U might want to serve both at the utmost respect behaviour but u cant have both unfortunately. Yg u boleh buat adalah menjaga hati kedua dua pihak. After my parent divorce i baru faham yang mmg susah nak maintain relationship sebagai anak dengan salah satu ibu atau bapa. Ws is the only way to make them happy ❤️

noonecareboutyouuu :

DoubleAAshp :

Arghhhh😭😭

جيجي🇵🇸 :

Allah :(

𝘢-𝘤𝘳𝘢𝘣 :

bole relate tp xrelate sgt. the fact yg die xpe ah cuba utk tunjuk kata dia nk kitorang, care... Now after years, he came back and act like nothing happened. Kitorang yg cri dia padahal dia, penah cri kitorang. Its funny how kitorang nmpk mcm hamam sgt kasih dia. Yes, kitorang nk dia syg kitorang mcm orng laen tp dia xcuba lgsg.. mcm mne pun klau xde dia, xde kitorang. We're only thankful for that.

자와위 🐺 :

menahan air mata mengalir

tisyaaa :

Bell نبيلة هدى BLV21🦋 :

Sedih la bongokkkk

Ika :

I love my dad, even to this day. Love never fades because I was his daughter, but I couldn't forget all the trauma he gave me. Because of him, I come to hate men, I feel extreme disgust with guys. I barely meet my dad now since he has now remarried and we live separately. Deep in my heart, I know I love him despite all the hatred I felt toward him, but that's as far as it goes. I wish I never had to see him again, and I didn't visit him unless he was the one that wanted to meet, and most of the time I would say no. I don't call him, I didn't text him, and sometimes I didn't even answer his phone call. It's the anger I'm feeling for having to see my mom living her life with him, suffering and not having anything for herself, and the fact that we need to grow up being abused only added the oil to the fire. I've forgiven all of his actions, but I couldn't heal the scars that were carved deeply inside

jayden :

geng BU cannot relate

itsz.me(0.o) :

😁😁😁