jo7iah
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Patty💖 :
We can't discredit energy and soul connection, though. Everything is energy. I think a lot of the issue is, that people tend to live in the delusion of spiritual connection. My avoidant is my twin flame, but im not in delusion that, that means we are supposed to be in union. We were placed together for many of reason. We have been in separation for 8 months. I could be with them if I didn't want a committed relationship. But im not bc I date with intentions, becoming one, growth, etc. For it to ever work, we both have healing. I choose to heal, they choose not too. And thats fine, im ok with that. Spiritual connection doesn't equal put up with someone's bs. Im emotionally mature.
2026-08-23 16:46:25
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Blac0829 :
omg me with my ex and his dad he regurgitate everything that man said and thought then when I said they were enmeshed he thought I was jealous because I individuated from my parents he saw their system as love even though they were abused. I hate enmeshed families and I kp finding only those type of men that's what I need to get to the root of
2026-08-22 22:11:26
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Mia :
The twin flame narrative is toxic and keeps people stuck, long after a relationship has ended. Unfortunately, many creators will talk about it for follows and make money.
2026-08-22 21:49:44
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Pr@jna :
yes yes yes. its limerence
2026-08-21 19:29:51
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ghosta2222 :
Also, when you decide that that person is your person, u create a reality that exists only in ur mind and not theirs. So when you forgive their bad behavior over and over, for you it’s u giving ur soulmate a chance. For them it’s you being a doormat.
2026-08-17 13:03:19
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My Talking Thoughts :
It reminds me of the people who cannot get over their first loves and refuse to grow in other relationships. Like fam, that is a trauma bond, not love. When you hear them talk about it, the relationship is rarely healthy. I knew someone who stayed 10 years with a cheating man who boxed her and she said he was his soulmate. She robbed those who tried to love her and hold her accountable as an adult.
2026-08-17 16:27:42
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Lex :
Man this is SO GOOD. The accuracy is crazy
2026-08-17 15:20:03
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🌞✨ :
i wish you could talk about what healthy repair looks like between two secure adults after betrayal
2026-08-17 14:18:05
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Mercedes_williams :
Enmeshment is scaryyyy
2026-08-17 11:50:04
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pink noise :
I think I’ve experienced this in 2 relationships, and am wondering— what happens when mom dies?
2026-08-17 17:38:24
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Nash :
This is my main issue with the soulmate stuff. It implies that no matter what someone does you should stay and take it. That you should just accept them the way they are even when they are harmful
2026-08-18 08:48:10
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holsumbuddy :
Aye… no shade I don’t believe twin flame ish no more cuz I run into too many emotionally immature people. That’s a plugged into the system thing. Thats a I’m fake woke thing. That’s a I don’t really wanna tell how I feel to cause a conflict. That’s a I can’t articulate my triggers so I lash out or try to deviously control people thing.
2026-08-17 15:39:24
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TheDirtyMustache :
Not just emotional immaturity but keeps you hooked and hopeful in something that is most likely not going to ever happen
2026-08-18 03:09:33
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Dez :
Whimsical attitudes and relationships are a recipe for disaster
2026-08-17 16:28:40
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BRB :
Twin flames is spiritual experience. After your awakening you have practically no codependency, none of those attachment styles matter . 99% of twin flames are full of it. And no amount of psychology can explain it.
2026-08-19 02:24:40
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Linny_ :
honestly great to hear an even headed and psychologically backed andddd nuance take on my feed
2026-08-17 11:55:20
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ItsDonovan :
The love-hate relationship with the mother is always a dead giveaway.
2026-08-17 19:27:21
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miloolim :
absolutely!! I was in a caregiver dynamic and never again, absolutely exhausting
2026-08-17 14:44:39
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Sis GLORIA💕 :
What’s the difference between twin flames and catalyst?
2026-08-17 21:18:48
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pomboys4life :
Hmmm I was an anxious and I do actually agree with this a lot.. this works for fearful to right?
2026-08-17 17:08:41
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smw :
I knew i shoulda put this damn phone down and tried to sleep
2026-08-19 03:24:08
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user5568898599522 :
The idea of being her “twin flame” was placed onto me early into knowing one another because of the instant connection we found. I never believed in it but the fact someone who wasn’t religious would subscribe to the idea of an eternal chase was potent. I wasn’t spiritual when it came to love but the idea that you instantly connect so deeply with someone and are drawn to them is like a drug. Of course, that then turns out to be a reflection of their view on love and relationships that they should be chased after they leave and the one meant for them would chase them until the end of time. Suddenly I am still not a spiritual person, but I am wrapped up in their idea of the chase and I find it hard to separate myself from the love I knew because I think their absence is still part of our once ideal relationship. The clean separation I wanted has been washed away by a connection to her I explicitly asked not to be kept and instead I’m stuck looking for more signs that the chase is still on
2026-08-17 22:04:06
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BigDoughh 💰 :
Yea me and my mom are kinda enmeshed. She and my partner share A LOT of traits.
2026-08-19 05:11:42
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