@therealniccoy: Sometimes the biggest red flag is realizing you don’t recognize yourself anymore. If you’re constantly second-guessing yourself, walking on eggshells, apologizing to keep the peace, or losing trust in your own reality. Please pay attention. 🖤 You don’t need a diagnosis to take the impact seriously. Have you ever experienced this? #narcissist #abuse #HealingJourney #Relationship #narcissisticabuse
You lose yourself but oh, how I loved the feeling of that 'remember who the f*ck I am' moment.
2026-08-17 20:46:24
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The Ferment Hobbyist 🇿🇦 :
The shock, when you look back….😳
2026-08-17 19:41:44
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Karrie 🧜♀️🏝🌊☀️ :
I needed you so badly 8 years ago. Took me so long to figure out WTF… Thankfully the narcissist finally got caught cheating and that was the last straw. I left then learned all of this 💜
2026-08-21 13:20:55
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Collballs :
Not only did I not feel like myself anymore, I was told I physically looked different as well. My posture, energy, face, walk, everything. Detoxing from that relationship has been difficult, but I can’t even imagine where I would be if I didn’t.
2026-08-17 17:47:19
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Christynewitha_y :
My parents are both narcissistic, my biggest fear is that I am no better than them every single second of every single moment of the day.
2026-08-20 15:43:00
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The Don1210 :
Narcissists are usually very clever and calculated in their time line. they have already created the future story! so when you arrive there they dole it out in such a way. of course you question yourself. and only if you corner them will they use the safety clause of historical disturbance in their life..
2026-08-17 15:13:54
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BabyAshhh<3 :
so true. 🥺
2026-08-20 15:37:02
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Rem_Bbgy :
How can someone be so evil.
2026-08-17 21:48:32
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Psiholog Charisma Amalia :
good explanation👏
2026-08-20 08:25:20
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Lilly :
yep! if you notice, they only talked about you but not themselves. when they made a mistake, they blame you for it. I knew a narcissist. She made me so sick to the point where I have to leave because I can not breathe!!! luckily, God got my back and taught her a lesson.
2026-08-20 08:41:13
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Daisy_mary :
I literally was going insane. Thought I was the narcissist, that I had mpd, rumination ocd and didn’t even know who I was anymore. I was pushed to my limits and became this angry person who would lash out constantly, someone I’ve never been or something I’ve never done before. And the blame always was on me. All the fights were made out to be my fault and I was manipulated and gaslight to the extreme. He of course was cheating on me the whole time. But guys, I finally left. It’s been super rough but I’m free.
2026-08-18 00:11:48
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Angelica :
Went through all that. They'll push u to the brink of your sanity, u feel like a shell of a person & have no idea who u are anymore
2026-08-17 23:29:43
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Susan :
Where did I go?
2026-08-21 04:36:40
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inbnajay :
Sounds a little bit like fawning. Which I have realized I have been doing for many many years. Time to get life back.
2026-08-17 23:55:14
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V :
This is so true! He changed me in ways I never dreamed I'd be changed. The way I deal with relationships now is completely different. I was never suspicious before and now I am of everyone. My intuition and ability to read people, their emotions and even know their intentions is so strong now. I have definitely learned a lot and things aren't always easy but Im thankful for the gifts and insight I've been given because of what I went through.
2026-08-18 03:54:18
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BsTugba88 :
This..
2026-08-17 15:50:26
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None of your business :
You just summed up my marriage with my ex!
2026-08-18 09:36:35
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406CaptnRon :
And questioning if your memory of the events are correct
2026-08-17 15:44:51
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Jo Jo M :
🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 So true
2026-08-17 22:50:37
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Ashley Schemeley :
#5!!
2026-08-17 16:56:34
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villainvivien88 :
Remembering who you are is insanely liberating 🥰
2026-08-18 10:34:07
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Belle :
This has been me for the past 3 years
2026-08-18 06:29:07
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PrinceKentCharming :
I’m going through it now.
2026-08-18 00:17:11
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stephaniefullen :
when you finally see it! you reflect back and everything makes sense!
2026-08-18 00:03:04
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schulersd17 :
Thank You 🥰
2026-08-17 15:41:38
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