Lightning3012 :
Helena,
I'll give you some advice I figured out when I was in highschool. Don't try and live by everyone's expectations and try to be who they want you to be. The minute you do that, you're a follower and they're writing your story, they're in control. Just be yourself, be the author of your own story and don't let anyone else hold the pen 🙂 we all get haters, that just means that you're doing something right, that.... or they're jealous. Trust me, I've lost everyone in the past when I stopped playing that game. But then I figured meh, not my loss 🤷♂️now, I have boundaries and people know not to cross them. That in itself has gotten me a small handful of genuine friends. Stay in control, don't let anyone else write your story and just be your authentic self, not who everyone wants you to be. I think you're awesome so don't stress to much, ok. If you need to talk about stuff, send a message through. I don't judge as I've been there. I help out and let everyone vent to me and talking about it gets it off of your chest which takes some of the weight off of your shoulders. That'll make you feel a lot better. Take care mate.
Kind regards,
Josh.
2026-08-18 09:51:07