In my situation, we’re being very deliberate. We are hierarchical right now but over time (our secret ingredient) it’s been becoming and will continue to become more equal. My partners are married and their relationship is sacred to me. I feel supported by them and also want to support them as they evolve as a couple into an equal throuple.
2026-08-18 16:57:38
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Jen :
I’m thinking of little things, like who gets to sit in the front seat and who sits in the back, especially on date nights? Not in a negative way just pure curiosity.
2026-08-19 11:14:26
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👿 Ryne 🇺🇸 :
you just answered something I had been wondering about, my girlfriend and I have been together 15 years and we are considering adding a partner to our relationship
2026-08-17 19:53:41
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seeshell333 :
Another part of the challenge is recognizing that needs can evolve, and being brave enough to acknowledge/adjust.
2026-08-17 22:55:27
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WileyWombat :
I can see why this could be more challenging in a polyamorous relationship than, say, a group of swingers. In the Lifestyle community it’s commonly accepted that there’s a primary relationship, and that’s the only one with deep emotional connection. But in the polyamorous space, you are deliberately seeking and making emotional/romantic bonds. It seems an almost certainly that, once those emotional bonds begin to form, the Thief of Joy named Comparison appears, and causes people to question whether they are seen/valued/loved/desired *as much as* another member of the relationship. That must be challenging, especially in the early days.
2026-08-17 23:32:42
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King.Pumpkin❌ :
Yes, it is there and it sucks. But ours got better with time. We’re 8 years in and absolutely equal now. They see each other as equal and share duties and life now.
2026-08-17 18:22:32
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John Lindsey :
What do you do when your wife desires her bf of 4 months over her husband of 5 years? Especially when only 2 of the people's needs are being met.
2026-08-17 19:08:23
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Sarah :
Thank you, My husband has told me that he wants to give me 90 percent and Girlfriend only 10 percent for now. Girlfriend said she understands, he she has only been with him for 6 months, He said I have been there 19 years, Theu Cancer, thru a Motorcycle accident. So Thank you, You have truly helped me. As soon as I can I want to book a session with you
2026-08-17 16:21:38
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user2204135360677 :
sound super complicated
2026-08-19 02:54:31
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Sarah :
Thank you for validating that just because my partners are married doesn’t automatically and forever make me a second class citizen.
2026-08-20 18:21:51
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Temptresspixie✨ENMdiaries :
Thank you I’ve been saying this for years!
2026-08-19 08:43:59
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jerrymurphy281 :
For You page second post today. I hope the algorithm is back to normal. I must say several people I follow are not turning up either. I follow a lot of blind content and other poly people. Just a FYI so you know what is getting out. 😎
2026-08-18 15:11:33
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williammcclellan81 :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-08-17 16:49:36
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maskedblogger51 :
👏👏👏🫡😎
2026-08-22 15:12:14
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