I’m avoidant and I’m waiting 6 months so I can become more secure and communicate
2026-08-17 17:18:40
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2shelfran222 :
They “SELDOM” come back. Good thought but it seldom happens.
2026-08-19 19:06:49
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c :
it’s been a year now i just don’t think so. someone tell me otherwise?
2026-08-17 21:22:04
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ross_x8pd :
Avoidants can grow?
2026-08-17 17:47:34
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Orvalish :
They don’t always come back. It’s been four months no contact, I’m still blocked on everything, but I’m still able to see what she’s doing and she looks perfectly happy doing content, videos, and acting unbothered. It look like she moved on with her life.
2026-08-17 22:53:11
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deandrealign :
And what if they’re in a 8 month rebound
2026-08-19 10:21:25
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L E X I 🍒 :
what if we are "friends" because he wanted to still be friends... 👀
2026-08-19 12:52:10
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Adam Sworski :
i do not want him back. he called me crazy and psychotic 😭
2026-08-17 17:33:07
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scott :
no she went to get back w her ex btw but she did break no contact but she did admit she gave me false hope. Both doors r closed. She closed hers bc she hopes her ex is the answer
2026-08-19 04:04:41
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queencurmudgeon :
When it doesn’t work out with whoever they got with after they dumped you (and it won’t) they might come back looking to see if you’re still stupid when it comes to them, then they’ll just leave you again down the line because nothing really changed.
2026-08-17 20:08:29
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HarleyGuy71 :
Yeah, except she ran right into the arms of another man and is in a "solid" relationship with him. She's never coming back. 😭💔
2026-08-18 09:49:56
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Dan :
Natalie your content has always been grounded & honest, objective etc. sad to see you’ve gone down the path of pushing this demonstrably false hope inducing crap about they always come back… there’s enough creators around who exploit the vulnerable for their own benefit without otherwise good creators taking the same dishonest slide. You know it & if there was a shred of supporting evidence of this there would be empirical evidence supported by peer reviewed studies etc. the fact this does not exist, nor can you or anyone else cite such evidence is because it does not exist. This is a completely unfounded claim & you know it. Yes some exes come back, regardless of attachment style but this is absolutely dishonest & it’s so sad how many influencers & content creators push this crap.
2026-08-18 06:52:11
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philip Cyr :
Yes, but the flower never tells you when they’re stuck in the jar it’s kind of disingenuous to blame a secure or anxious attachment person for how the flower feels. We don’t put them in the jar. They put themselves in the jar.
2026-08-19 03:16:58
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southpaulthomas :
I doubt it but I am listening
2026-08-17 16:32:02
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PR3TTI 😍 Sagittarius 🇺🇸🇯🇲 :
Righttt
2026-08-19 17:15:52
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Kat :
No they don’t
2026-08-17 20:37:59
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HeavenHitsDifferent :
So basically let him cheat and he will grow? Yeah I’m good ✌️
2026-08-17 20:39:35
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Sam Dial :
what if my avoidant has has discarded me, 5 months later she blocked me because she believes I hurt her or played her when in reality I did no such thing but she has it in her head I did
2026-08-18 04:58:13
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Kelly Belly 🌙 :
Lmao i asked for a sign
2026-08-17 19:15:58
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Nate :
Idk, I doubt it
2026-08-17 19:13:30
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Shawn Hammond :
nah dawg I crashed out after being discarded and cheated on. she aint coming back, and as much as the pain of abandonment feels like being skinned alive and salted over and over, I really hope she never does come back. I miss her every day and I hate her
2026-08-17 18:20:21
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Dark👑+•+¢🗡️ :
Avoidants are the jar, anxious people are the flowers. Your analogy is not right...
😏
2026-08-18 08:56:03
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Anthony J. Vecchio, Esq. :
“Need to be alone” (back on dating apps or reconnecting with exes).
2026-08-18 20:25:00
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mimi :
no
2026-08-18 04:22:05
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