All people wanna do is talk about themselves. This goes for friendships as well!
2026-09-14 20:44:49
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ʝαƶƶყ💞 :
I just told someone.. “you only care about how I can fit into your life. Not how you can fit into mine or how we can fit into each others”.
2026-09-14 18:20:52
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_auraonthefloor :
It’s always a surface conversation. It seems as if people are on pilot mode. When there’s so much more to uncover
2026-09-14 16:26:53
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AVEZ :
I want mutual curiosity in all my meaningful relationships, not just romantic
2026-09-09 06:08:22
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rya :
Like someone venturing to deeply understand me! We definitely getting married!!
2026-10-02 06:19:32
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Essence :
Men will talk about themselves all day and never ask you a thingggg about yourself omg
2026-09-15 01:55:47
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JARVA :
thank you. i cut guys off who aren’t curious. curiosity is everything to me. if you aren’t interested in ME, then how are you INTERESTED in ME? ?
2026-09-14 02:49:08
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Mo. :
and then they’ll claim to have deep feelings for you. How, when you don’t know me deeply?
2026-09-15 01:57:02
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💙🫧Miss~Hermner 🫧 :
everything so surface level 👐🏽 no depth or curiosity 😔 like what a hellllll is going on
2026-10-01 13:08:02
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theythesun :
Exactly, curiosity followed by intention have become part of my love languages !!
2026-09-01 16:26:09
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Tia Shanay :
Intimacy: in-to-me-you-see. Exactly everything you said. Curiosity for someone is such a beautiful thing. That's also in part why I don't waste anyone's time, if I'm not genuinely interested in getting to know you, I won't entertain anything.
2026-09-15 01:51:00
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Vee :
Yes! Lack of curiosity is an immediate turn off for me and why i currently am not as interested in dating. So many people want to explore their physical attraction to me but not an attraction to my mind.
2026-09-14 21:27:41
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Cece :
Right! Bc why aren’t you asking questions about my life lol
2026-09-14 15:20:36
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Alexis :
Literally because how can you claim to love me if you don’t actually know me???
2026-09-14 05:13:27
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Cre8ALifeuLove :
They are scared to feel😩
2026-09-14 17:16:23
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leila :
Right, looking for more depth in relationships not just the surface level
2026-09-14 05:01:17
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Mercedes :
I’ve been noticing how much people lack curiosity.
2026-09-16 12:09:44
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Sav ⋆.˚୨ৎ :
so real! and the nerve to tell me you feel deeply about me and yet you do not know my favorite hobbies
2026-09-16 18:06:26
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Claris__rzu :
Lack of curiosity is such a deal breaker for me. In both romantic and platonic relationships. 🤷🏾♀️
2026-09-15 02:02:41
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Raebansss :
This! I hate pointless small talk
2026-09-14 20:14:29
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notkianaaa :
its literally so boring. no one is romantic. everyone is trying to hold back. trying to look cool as if they don't have feelings or emotions.
2026-09-14 20:54:36
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emmanasa_ :
This is forever my why
2026-09-02 14:33:53
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kioni :
i don’t want anything surface level
2026-09-14 11:17:02
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jen :
Well said
2026-09-01 12:44:08
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ie ❦ :
1000%! Intentional curiosity is connected to organic chemistry // yearning imo
2026-09-14 17:47:17
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