@hopeyoufindyourdad: Boy moms vs raising good children #parenting #motherhood

Shazam :

My daughter (5yrs) was having her hairpulled by a boy that sat behind her; on the carpet, this happened twice. She told the teachers they did nothing, she told me and next time, when you feel him about to yank on your hair, whip your head back, she did, her head hit his nose and it started bleeding, my daughter sat and said 'you didn't stop him, I did!' We went for ice cream as a reward.

charlottesometimekc💙 :

Some boy moms don’t WANT them to be nice to other girls.

Natali -Horror/Fantasy Booktok :

I'm a mum of a boy, and as she should

Mojo :

Those boys need to learn repercussions 🤷🏼‍♀️I’ve seen so many grown men not care that they hurt women

Theeredqueen 🇨🇦 :

Gentle parenting is not Permissive parenting. This argument is so exhausting 😭😭 we can’t be a matriarchy if we keep using patriarchal rhetorics .

Inflorescent Rage :

I heard my teenager going OFF the other day. I cautiously wondered over to her and asked what was up and why she was using that language. "I'm not going to allow any boy or man call me a b*tch. If they want to see a b*tch, I'll show them one.". I was like... Oh, alrighty. That's valid. Carry on.

SB that's ME :

We'd better be careful or they're gonna think they're liked, b'cuz remember, "If he hurts you, it means he likes you."

Devoe :

If my son does that, he’s getting your daughter flowers & a card. He’s then apologizing to her in front of the same number of people he embarrassed her in front of. This is why I am the mom of a boy, not a boy mom.

nikkissupersecrettiktok :

People underestimate how deadly comments on someone’s weight can be. Especially from a young age

Jenna 💞 :

I was a little girl who grew up being called fat by boys AND I’m a mom to a boy- if he gets his shit rocked for doing something like that - it’s natural consequences. He is not being raised to treat/speak to anyone with hate.

Valeri Grave _ Mom x 4 :

as an all boy mom... yes. I'd probably send flowers to the girl. thank you for teaching my boy some decency because clearly I wasnt getting through to him

MentalHealthMinutes13 :

100% agree with the mom. (I am a boy mom.)

Hev :

Good parents out here saying "yes I agree" because they know their boys aren't out there bullying other kids. Is there a go fund me for this girls boxing lessons? I would donate.

Make me 😘 :

I agree with her!

chlo-wweeeeeeee :

I get nauseous when I’m referred to as a boy mom. Like no, I’m just a mom. Who happens to have a boy only right now lol

Ignorance Wont Save You :

Yes misogyny is taught.

Shirley 🇨🇦 :

Recently told my son I’m more worried about him becoming a bully than being bullied. I think I broke his brain - it led to such a good conversation with him!

dane :

1st on the 4th upload

confusedasways :

A boy pushed my daughter when she was about 10. She punched him in the face. Both she and the boy got sent home. When I went to the s hook

uranium :

Fact Check First Initiative :

assaulting people is never the answer

.NyxManic. :

Mom of a boy, I am teaching my son that no means no. bullying is wrong, and boundaries are to be respected. I will not stand by and raise another abusive man.

The Yourdy :

And the stories I can tell you about what little girls have done to my son. He is not allowed to defend himself, he knows to ignore it and just walk away.

Lorin Franzi :

don't punch mine. he cant help it. he's still learning...... he's 7 months old. apparently discipline doesn't start working until they're 9 months minimum.

Jacob Covey :

please slap my son if he is a pig. he won't be but if he ever is, leave a mark so I can ask questions