The best advice I’ve gotten was to in a way pretend they don’t exist, not in a bad way but as in refocusing on your goals, your hobbies and passions and living as if they didn’t exist when they’re not around. If they don’t call when busy then they don’t call. If they don’t text then they don’t text. If they are able to live their lives then so can you. It’s hard and it’s really painful and can even be draining, but it’s so much worse to wait around for someone in a relationship who’s actively living a life that doesn’t include you knowing they wouldn’t do the same.
2026-08-18 15:50:30
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☆ :
now we've fallen apart..
2026-08-20 09:18:57
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🧁🪽 :
Would anyone be willing or want to start a gc for us lonely gfs?!
2026-08-19 07:10:36
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s :
i just wanna feel normal
2026-08-20 06:07:55
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nico :
im doing much better, i didn’t realize it was something i did until he spoke up and im glad he did! i was so dependent on him and it was how my mood/everything was decided for that day or even week. but i wish you luck! things get better :)
2026-08-18 04:45:43
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say gex :
this is so hard. and no one talks about how emotionaly is painful when they have fun with their friends and they go out, live their life while you have no one except him.. people don't understand! (even tho I am trying so had to have friends, a girl group, go out with someone, but it's so hard cuz everyone left)
2026-08-20 05:43:17
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𝕯𝖎𝖆𝖒𝖔𝖓𝖉 ౨ৎ :
Literally me for the past few months 😭 I miss him every second and wanna talk to him all the time but I’m trying to understand he needs his alone time
2026-08-18 06:26:03
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𝕯𝖆𝖓𝖎 ☠︎ :
It sucks when u are chronically ill so I spend most of my time in bed not being able to do anything and im trying not to be dependent but literally what else can I do 😭
2026-08-18 11:35:06
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joe :
I wish i wasn’t so clingy, literally we kinda got into an argument and its all my fault. I tried texting but he wont reply back :( i feel like the worst gf ever
2026-08-19 08:51:16
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Sol :
Currently going through this to the point that I'm becoming toxic with him. Help 😭😭
2026-08-18 09:02:30
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dy :
the timing?!
2026-08-20 05:04:43
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Siren :
why this on my feed the second im having this issue
2026-08-18 20:45:55
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haze :
so real
2026-08-19 15:35:44
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cutieprincesssparklegirl :
Yea same I don’t want my mood to depend if we talk or not that day
2026-08-18 14:00:38
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rosefromthedead ⦻ :
holy timing
2026-08-19 10:53:50
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Keri ! :
half of my day is just waiting for him to get home. It sucks
2026-08-19 03:27:59
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𝚓𝚎𝚜𝚜 ☣︎ :
Haii guys!! I’m currently going thru the same thing, something that’s been helping me is rewatching my fave shows that have long seasons. I’ve been rewatching Ahs & it helps a lot to distract my mind. I also been doing Diy things!
2026-08-18 21:11:47
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nah itll get a lot better trust me girl. dont revolve ur entire day around him and his calls. you are going to lose yourself and hes going to lose the girl he fell in love with. im going to sound like a dork but find a hobby or smth u like to do. he is your compliment, not your entire world, no one will live ur life but you
2026-08-19 05:20:08
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🌟AquariusBongwater🌟 :
Literally same i deadass went back to school and got a gym membership to fight the codependency and honestly it works!! Just find things to do in your time away from them and once u set up a routine you’ll be golden!
2026-08-19 06:25:57
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yolofroyo.yo :
I forced myself to do things on my own. Wanted to go shopping? I went by myself. Wanted to go somewhere just to look at nature? I went by myself. Couldn’t understand my emotions? I journaled until I got it out. It has helped SO MUCH. Now it’s almost nicer when he’s with me because I want him there not that I need him there anymore
2026-08-19 13:55:54
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gatito :
IM DAY 2 PLEASE I NEEDS TIPS CAUSE I DONT REALLY HAVE ANY FRIENDS :c
2026-08-18 19:33:17
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user444567321 :
this and genuinely hate that if we fight my whole day is ruined
2026-08-19 13:35:11
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asexyassgemini💋 :
I’m just so lonely
2026-08-19 07:02:53
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🍒 :
This is so real and sometimes I just be overthinking so much I feel like it effects us
2026-08-18 06:11:43
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