@theultimatebreakupcoach: If you keep begging someone not to leave, you are teaching them something you never intended to teach them. That they can walk away, ignore you, reject you and still have you waiting whenever they decide to come back. They don’t have to wonder if they’ve lost you because you keep reminding them that they haven’t. Stop trying to convince someone to choose you. Go no contact. Not as a trick to get them back, but because **they need to experience what life actually feels like without access to you.** And more importantly, you need to remember what life feels like when you stop chasing someone who chose to leave. Sometimes the moment you stop trying to get them back is the moment **you start getting yourself back.** ❤️ #NoContact #BreakupTok #Heartbreak #BreakupAdvice #FYP