@shaythethey: Knowing when to leave is just as important as knowing when to show up. Sometimes sticking around signs you up for worse treatment than giving up. Some lessons in life have to be learned alone. Leaving others to learn for themselves is one of the most gracious acts you can do. #lifelesson #advice #relationships #leaver #shaythethey
The most considerate is often mishandled in all dynamics almost.
2026-08-17 21:22:38
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Marty :
Ive been realizing my kindness and consideration is actually a trauma response. Im ready to be a selfish b*tch now esp after how I’ve been treated.
2026-08-18 00:25:52
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FaeDarling :
i call it the pimp allegory,
2026-08-17 19:43:13
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ToyotaRolla90 :
🗣🎯💯
2026-08-17 21:00:33
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The Pragmatist 🇺🇸 :
“It is not your duty to be the shepherd of everyone.” 🎯🎯🎯
2026-08-17 20:43:36
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Cheskah4theCulture :
friendship family romantic WORK all of ot
2026-08-19 12:12:42
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PaisleyPrincess :
I have stuck around entirely too long for the worst kinds of people. Not the result of my finest thinking
2026-08-18 03:11:14
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pinkiepie_kai :
I done ride and died too many time. You ride and im leaving 😂
2026-08-17 21:34:21
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Pretty Gal :
the one who sticks around for a very long time is mistreated
2026-08-18 05:31:08
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sevy :
i’ve left the party ♥️
2026-08-17 22:38:53
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Aime Anu🧿 :
‘Punching down on the last one remaining’😂ik it’s not meant to be funny, but that’s really how it be!
2026-08-17 22:08:38
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zombieeee63 :
the eldest son in the parable if the prodigal son
2026-08-17 19:48:45
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Asmodeus Xion 💋 :
I am so glad I learned this years ago. The hard way ofc but I needed it. Life has been great since.
2026-08-18 02:39:16
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theepumpkinqueen666 :
My brother cut off my mom and I stayed, she hated me and always had. Now with hindsight, I wish I would’ve been the first to leave.
2026-08-19 18:16:35
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Saint Elsewhere :
Be the first to leave.
2026-08-18 00:19:30
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StrawberryDabs :
I learned this finally at 28 years old and I've been so free ever since I will actually just pack up and leave when needed
2026-08-18 13:31:25
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letisha8082 :
That’s why I leave quickly and people will try to make me feel bad for it. But when I look at what they went through because they sticked around for a long time is enough for me to not take what they say serious lmao
2026-08-18 13:19:13
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Ru :
This is so profound & aided in helping me understand why I’m so quick to walk away.
2026-08-17 21:10:16
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Gr8fulGirl :
You are all in my thoughts!💕💕
2026-08-18 12:49:36
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Babbette de Leon Coeur :
Damn, let me go reflect 🤔
2026-08-18 12:58:48
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jaeanalynalexeyev :
It’s true, some of us would think if we’re patient enough not to leave, things would get better. But nope, things get worse. It’s all the trauma bond and having a mental reservation kept us from leaving. Once you leave, you never want to go back to that vicious cycle.
2026-08-17 22:03:38
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