When my daycare provider displayed to me something my 3 yo was doing to my 2 yo. I started sobbing. It was exactly what their dad had done to me the night before. I left a week later with $72 and 3 kids
2026-08-17 23:49:29
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Crystal :
I told him that his behavior, his lying, his lack of effort in this marriage while he made effort for others was hurting me and all I got back was “oh ok”
2026-10-10 00:44:32
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HollyP🇺🇸 :
He left me in the hospital with a kidney infection and spent the night with my niece his mistress.
2026-10-18 22:14:17
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Joye Cushing :
After berating me all night, he finished by saying I was weak and I could never make a decision on my own so the next day I made a decision
2026-09-24 23:16:44
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Heather :
I started therapy because I thought I was the problem. Turns out Im not and my therapist keeps asking why I have stayed, there are many times I should have left , but I thought I was protecting my children
2026-09-15 07:34:12
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LyraLady2❌ :
He came home with a new car after we decided to not get it and he said well I wanted it. It was always what he wanted not what we wanted
2026-08-21 00:37:13
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✝️ :
Still waiting on mine. I’m weak.
2026-08-18 01:32:21
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pmula2004 :
He dropped his bike, wasn’t my fault I didn’t react anything.. but drove home so carelessly and I begged him to stop.. no helmets nothing. Knew right then that this MF didn’t give a crap about me!! That was my last straw! Could have left my babies orphaned but he didn’t care because HE DROPPED HIS BIKE
2026-09-29 20:56:01
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krisfessenden3 :
When he allowed his adult daughter to hurt my Granddaughters feelings. Issues of the same nature had been happening for years but this particular time I'd had enough.
2026-10-07 22:39:53
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Nikki :
Still trying to figure it out.
2026-10-08 19:12:22
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racergirl214 :
Ooh the cat incident sealed it for me. Then I said were done and said divorce. He immediately changed into a nice human being, good to the kids, good to me. Now it’s been almost a year with consistent good behavior. If you want to leave then leave. Bc if they change NOONE talks about that on TikTok and you will have no idea what to do. I’ve asked several times with no avail. Everyone on this app says narcissists don’t change. But mine has. And no one gives any advice on if they’ve changed for almost a year if you’re supposed to still leave because the last 17 years have been diabolical. Am I looking for some kind of public display of apology? I don’t know is that what I need? I want to be fair to myself. That’s it. I want to be fair to myself. And I wanna let my girls know that someone treating me like this 17 years is not the way. But now that he’s a great guy for almost a year now to them and me, do I say well we’re still gonna leave or this is how a man treats you and that’s why I’m staying?
2026-08-19 01:22:51
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Tallgirl :
screamed in my face...no thank you 😔 still love him but I would tell my daughter to run so I need to love my self that much too.
2026-10-17 17:00:06
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Hockaday Horde :
Mine was that I knew I probably wouldn't make it out of the relationship alive. But then my 14yo said they were afraid they wouldn't make it out alive... We're all out now 💖 Hearing my baby say that was my final straw.
2026-08-18 04:39:24
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Shannon Anderson :
After 30 years, one of 3 things I needed to do for our marriage to move forward, according to him, was to never "s@xually reject" him again. So, I was not allowed to say no when he wanted to. NOPE !!
2026-08-18 00:56:38
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Casey❌ :
Took our son to college for his senior year of college-came home to girlie drinks left over in the frig (like wine cooler type)….see ya! Never looked back. 10 years free!!!!
2026-10-10 00:44:22
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Becki :
When he threatened to shoot me in the face if I ever cheated on him. I never cheated, but his stepdad shot his mom in the face and killed her 6 years ago.
2026-09-09 21:16:16
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Soderlind Farms :
Today. I knew before but today drive it home. I’m coming up on first anniversary of my dads death and was telling my husband that I finally reached an agreement with my dads wife about a few of his things that are very important and sentimental to me and the kids. My husband asked if I was going to take it all to the dump because nothing my dad owned is worth a shit and it’s not important to him.
2026-09-20 18:52:15
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Sage :
30th Anniversary Him sitting across the table from me during our dinner, he was in a foul mood and I had no idea why. I tried to accommodate, we can go somewhere else, it’s our anniversary, I just want us to have a good time, we haven’t even ordered. He looked at me, with such disgust, i had tears streaming down my face and he said, here we are, another year, and another year of you sitting across the table crying. I paused, and said, thank you for framing that so perfectly for me. It was the day everything changed for me.
2026-08-18 05:17:17
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❌Joshaz❌ :
When he ruined Christmas, the same way he ruined every holiday, by starting an argument and telling me to get the F*** out of his house. Less than an hour before our adult kids arrived. I couldn’t pretend to be ok anymore. I was so depressed I lost 50 pounds in less than 4 months.
2026-09-22 00:48:24
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dark phoenix :
being told who I could and couldn't be friends with. sounds like such a small thing but in the 30 years we were together after how horribly I was treated and how many of his friends I didn't really like I never once told him who he could and couldn't be friends with.
2026-09-06 19:21:15
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Lauren.Ezo :
he killed my happiness. I felt it happen, and something clicked that he literally hated me.
2026-09-17 03:46:03
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Chels :
When he punched me in the face
2026-09-02 23:57:51
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user9062395430179 :
Walking into hospital to meet our sons first SON and watching him have zero emotions.
2026-09-19 14:14:22
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MimiTreesie :
We had been separated for a few months, he was living in our Rv. He told me he was going to go to a church that I believed had a cult like feel to it. I said I’d be willing to go to church with him at a different place but he said he didn’t believe that it would “harm our relationship” for him to go to the other church as well. I said- the choice is yours, but if you disregard me in this I’m through. He got up the next day and went to The St. James Church - Colorado Springs. ( Ted Haggard - pastor, look it up!!) I threw his clothes onto the front yard when he got back. Been peacefully single since September, 2024. But the stress of being a “trad wife” for 40 years left me disabled. So many regrets of not leaving sooner/ DO IT LADIES!! You are stronger than you ever imagined
2026-09-27 04:26:17
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tree :
When he said to stop telling stories to mom who only remembers the past because of her Alzheimer’s
2026-09-22 13:24:49
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