Dr. Ruth | That Was Abuse
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Monday 17 August 2026 21:10:14 GMT
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Building the broken :
My ex would have waited until the middle of the night and then woke me up and raked me over the coals for HOURS. Knowing that I would have to get up super early, take care of the kids and get to work, while he could sleep the day away.
2026-08-17 22:01:29
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forest 🇨🇦 :
Is cheating abuse?
2026-08-18 01:44:43
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Lucy Nicole :
oh how many times did my ex leave me sitting at the restaurant, while pregnant, because of whatever xyz thing I did to upset him... Took me another 12ish years to leave 😕
2026-08-18 01:26:36
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Llyssa (That Convention Girl) :
Oh man my ex did EXACTLY this kind of bs about seats
2026-08-17 21:14:27
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Victoria :
Just wanted to say thank you. I left the abuse 3 days ago. You really helped, thanks.
2026-08-22 23:56:09
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Tallyliahmaree :
I remember watching this the first time, and it triggered me so much because he was so much like this
2026-08-17 22:23:37
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Belladonna Sage :
Thank you for sharing this series. It's so healing. My ex wanted crab boil...he wanted to PICK UP crab boil. The restaurant wrapped it plastic, but its boiling hot liquid. He pulls out of the parking lot and gets up to 40 to then immediately hit his breaks at a red light. The boiling liquid goes all over my exposed legs. I yelped and tightly shut my thighs together to try to hold the liquid off his car seats. Didn't work, of course. He was livid at ME for not better protecting his seats. It was coming home a WONDERFUL date, the first one we had been on in a year. When we got home, I immediately spent 4 hours detailing his car and got every spot and smell out, just for him to continue to put holes in walls, throw away everything we got on our date, and give me the silent treatment for a WEEK. I had blisters covering my thighs from the hot liquid. 👍 That was abuse.
2026-08-23 16:15:32
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Chris101_ :
my ex husband walked out of a restaurant on me twice throughout our relationship. left me there sitting alone and with the bill. so glad I left that relationship.
2026-08-18 23:26:47
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KT Mac :
Oh my.gosh this sounds like something my father would’ve done, but he would’ve stayed and made snarky passive aggtessuve comments veiled as jokes. And then yelled at me in the car later
2026-08-17 21:51:03
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CheezeJedi :
This is so hard to watch. I am so happy you made it out. This is a personal question: are you blind in one eye?
2026-08-26 16:30:04
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magicalgirlkyra :
my ex had back issues, and whenever a chair wasn't comfortable for her it was *my* fault somehow
2026-08-18 02:14:35
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✨️ ✿ 𝒯𝓌𝒶𝒾𝓃 ✿ ✨️ :
Dayuuuum. I'm so glad you're out.
2026-08-17 22:30:38
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Tarni_Larni🇦🇺 :
And I know that sinking feeling in your gut when this happens, you try and make it right but when you can’t you just know it’ll be bad silent treatment for days
2026-09-03 01:52:22
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carson :
it does not matter how long it takes to leave, all the matters is that YOU GOT OUT. your comments always has survivors, and it makes me so relieved
2026-08-18 03:07:47
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Siren27 :
One time I ordered the wrong sub. I was at work, had worked over in a meeting, my daughter (not his) had her play that night. He messaged me asking about whether or not I ordered. Then he claimed I forgot him. When in reality I just was overwhelmed and made a mistake but he who didn’t have a job— had the audacity to create a fight out of it on my daughters opening night
2026-08-17 23:59:06
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sunshine Shar ☀️ :
yeah ...that's abuse....it may not leave physical bruises, but the mental damage that does....is almost irreparable...
2026-08-18 03:15:55
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Zero :
Am I dumb for believing that being a good wife was good enough and now I am broke.
2026-09-30 19:48:16
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jmb710bb :
My goodness it’s like looking at my life through you
2026-08-18 20:37:27
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mrsoz17 :
Yep, still abuse
2026-08-19 00:55:34
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nickiharris77 :
Where do men get this kind of audacity to think their desires and feelings are the only thing that matters in the entire world?
2026-10-06 17:49:42
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alana_mae_mae :
That was abuse
2026-08-19 20:37:32
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Walks Gently :
These stories are so validating and triggering at the same time🥺
2026-09-12 02:36:05
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Michelle :
Oh my, so relatable! My grandmother passed and we went to a lunch and he walked in and said there are no chairs! Walked out, I went chasing while he walked to his mother’s home in winter!
2026-08-19 12:10:42
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TealTile :
Ah yeah the constant textning telling you you’re worthless, inconsiderate, incompetent, evil
2026-08-18 13:21:10
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Jo Pollock :
😳😳😳
2026-08-18 13:53:31
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