victoraguirre
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Chatie :
Nice house
2026-09-11 15:40:46
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Lizard🦎✝️ :
They never gave me equal energy, sometimes it’s not about “self awareness”😭
2026-09-11 21:32:08
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jaxc0_0 :
Except I was the only one putting effort into the friendship. All I did was stop texting them first all the time, haven't heard from any of them in months...
2026-08-18 16:34:15
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lynn :) :
i’ve always had this issue with friend groups and people telling me i’m the problem, even tho they were the toxic ones🥴 i may not stay in friend groups very long but i have a close group of separate friends that i’ve had for years and some a little over a decade that aren’t going anywhere. the problem isn’t me, it’s usually the group 🤷🏼♀️
2026-09-10 16:18:02
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Vanilla Xtract 🍉 :
I’d say it’s the situation. Cause my old friends made up a bunch of stuff and took things way out of context and made everyone their minions. So it’s definitely not always the case
2026-08-18 17:49:20
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lauren☆🫶 :
risky repost
2026-09-10 20:57:51
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izaイザ :
Ppl on the comments proving his point 😭
2026-08-25 00:55:55
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natasha :
I don't have friends becuz I cut them off.. they're draining me.. If I'm the problem, it's okay... at least my energy is safe now..
2026-08-18 23:08:06
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Lili :
That's what happens when you have boundaries, something most people seem to hate these days.
2026-08-18 22:47:44
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lux :
Not all people who’s friends leave are the issues. Some people are just bad at choosing the right people to be friends with and in the end they always seem to pick the friends who are horrible
2026-08-18 18:45:36
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Hekkaur :
People forget that your ability to keep friends has more to do with how you take care of your own self. You having boundaries isn't the problem, it's when you push people away on purpose because YOU think YOU are ALWAYS the problem that is the problem.In turn, your lack of care towards your own self affects the way you treat others. How are you supposed to love others properly and have your boundaries respected when you hate yourself this much? You don't even respect yourself. You get in your own way. People start seeing that, they try to reach out and help, and in your own self pity and self hatred you can't even see they're trying to care for you. You just start seeing it as them pushing your boundaries. This is what he means by lack of self awareness.
2026-08-31 18:17:27
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𝒜𝓃𝒿𝓎 :
All the people in these comments thinking they’re the exception 😭 im crine obvi this isn’t abt you if your situation is different
2026-08-22 22:06:53
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Respectfully, wtf :
I lost most of my friends bc I stopped being the only one putting any effort in, it's not a friendship if only one person keeps it alive...
2026-08-27 12:09:29
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cat ₍^. .^₎⟆ :
For me the most annoying ones are the ones that HAVE self-awareness but refuses to change their behavior because they still think what they’re doing is right. Those are the worst types of friends & lovers.
2026-08-19 22:02:10
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E :
Some of us have self respect and refuse to continue a one sided relationship
2026-08-19 02:27:33
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Notmetho :
Mas nakakatakot yung may self awareness pero hindi nagbabago. I mean alam niyang toxic yung traits na yun pero ayaw bagohin. Always be the “ ay ganito na kasi talaga ako eh, alam ko. Sakit ko na yan kaya wala talagang tumatagal sakin”
2026-08-21 09:33:42
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chester :
hot take: we don't need friends to be around esp. when they use you for ur own gain, one partner in life is enough lol
2026-08-18 23:57:27
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bluelobotostim :
God forbid some of us are neurodivergent.
2026-08-19 15:12:40
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𝒩𝒶𝓉𝒶𝓁𝒾ℯ ℳ𝒾𝓉𝒸𝒽ℯ𝓁𝓁🖤 :
I have a distant personality, but, also I am a free giver. I am tired of giving people really do take advantage. It’s exhausting.
2026-08-18 06:16:27
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fivrkh :
Does it count if i chose to cut off my friends because i always check on them and they dint check on me? I barely have four and only one is actively checking on me. Also im very self aware.
2026-08-21 13:19:09
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Heaven :
Fyp listening to deep.. I just ranted about this
2026-08-18 02:29:52
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eminowpi :
If having standards is a problem.. then yes, I am that problem. ✨
2026-08-19 18:37:19
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