Hi Sierra, I’m a vet. I would recommend anti anxiety meds if she seems irritated. I can’t properly say without examining her but I have many cases where pets can feel anxious for many reasons. I have followed your content for a while and this is not your fault however you travel a lot and she may be having attachment problems. It can present in many different ways and sometimes it can show as not wanting to be away from you or not wanting to be locked out. If you’d like advice please let me know!
2026-08-18 03:07:43
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🦕𝖻𝖾𝗅𝗅 ✿ :
sierra goddamn rose istg if you don’t update us
2026-08-18 02:30:23
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Rey🎀 :
My cat has really bad anxiety and Feliway plugins really help!
2026-08-19 19:43:27
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fan_2r :
“I feel like she hates her life ” I almost started crying (it’s in the caption)
2026-08-18 21:53:52
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𐔌 . ⋮ Kayla! .ᐟ ֹ ₊ ꒱ :
she’s having middle child syndrome , now she’s not the baby because of ur new kitten she feels abandoned
2026-08-18 05:38:55
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Danielle Lapointe :
I suggest having a video to show the vet so they can see the behaviors for themselves. Diagnosing behavioral issues can be difficult or misinterpreted if the vet is just going off of a description know matter how well you explain it allowing them to see exactly what your talking about with their own eyes can be extremely helpful to a proper diagnosis 😊
2026-08-18 03:34:31
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Chandra Jackson :
Is she spayed? UTIs can cause weird behavior in cats too.
2026-08-19 18:49:01
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Tia ida :
sounds like separation anxiety for sure. on top of perhaps the anxiety meds, look into calming treats, or Fleiway (a diffuser you plug in, like the wall plugs scents). also she maybe bored, look into attempting to have training sessions with her (check out Flounder the cat, her mom does "ballet school" to teach flounder all kinds of tricks). or look into enrichment toys for her to occupy her little over thinking brain.
2026-08-19 16:07:16
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Key :
If this is a recent development, she might be having a phase/stressed. Is she rejecting food/her litter box?
2026-08-18 03:20:55
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illneverwalkalone_ :
It could be separation anxiety
2026-08-18 04:42:42
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cherieanna06 :
did this start after getting ember? that could be why she’s acting differently. cats hate change. hope willow is ok 💗💗
2026-08-18 11:30:26
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Maddy🫶🏻 :
If you guys go anywhere give her items that smell like you guys and put her in a room it should help her
2026-08-19 16:54:38
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𝓑ri ꫂ᭪݁ :
poor girl, i hope the vets can help you guys with it. i hope Willows okay and in wishing her the best 🫶
2026-08-18 02:27:26
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Paul Macca rants :
NOOO WILLOW WE PRAY SHES OK
2026-08-18 02:27:18
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Penny(Natsuhiko & denkis wife) :
My cat had really had anxiety, and we got her anti anxiety meds. it got to the point she was peeing outside the litter box
2026-08-18 03:38:56
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Maddie!🙈 :
I’m wishing her luck and love my cats are sending love
2026-08-18 15:35:51
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nf :
Animal communicator
2026-08-19 17:42:46
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akindalife :
video for the vet to see her behaviour x
2026-08-18 03:38:54
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Adalley 🎀 :
Willow was the only girl cat before ember right? It could 100% be the change forsure it’s still extremely fresh for her it takes cats over a month to adjust to change
2026-08-19 01:47:42
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Aleena C✝️ :
Did this start when you brought Ember into the pack?
2026-08-18 06:09:36
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>~🪼🐋🐠sharks🐠🐋🪼~< :
If she hates the door being closed maybe try using mesh or something else to keep her out but she can still see in the room? I’m not sure
2026-08-18 02:30:59
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Jay :
She is adjusting to Ember. She was the only female, and now you have a little princess, and willow is showing you she is queen.
2026-08-18 06:18:07
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Noelle Marie :
Have you tried pheromone plug-ins? When my cat was having issues, my vet recommended these. When he would have a hard time with meow and just couldn’t settle down and things like that, I would get one for each room took a couple of days, but they’re seriously helped him and he calmed down. Even I’m really high stressful situations they help them. They’re worth looking into.
2026-08-18 03:07:51
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sarahlares2 :
Has this been since getting Ember? Also there is a natural pheromone called Feliway and it’s supposed to really help with cats anxiety and stress. But it’s really good you’re getting her seen. Get some blood work and just make sure she’s healthy.
2026-08-18 02:48:59
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