I’ve just decided if a man cannot make my life better in a way that I am unable to, then it’s not worth it.
2026-09-03 00:56:31
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YourFavBarBae :
My house is OFF LIMITS. Even to pick me up.
2026-09-02 19:47:28
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QueenieAB :
Don't adjust your schedule one bit! He adjusts to YOUR schedule!
2026-09-02 15:35:18
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aubreygrai :
It took you 10 months to meet your baby it should take them 10 months to a year if they are the one to meet your babies.
2026-09-02 22:17:52
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💜 :
I just don’t. I can’t afford another heartbreak. If their own father had the heart to do this to me, any man is capable of it too.
2026-09-02 23:58:38
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Lindsay_michelle :
A single mom has to struggle enough you don’t pay for a thing with that man. You make him pay for dinner. Gas. Open your door. Your time is valuable. He has to put forth effort. Do not drive to him. Spilt anything. Etc
2026-09-01 02:24:03
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Julie :
Don’t settle period. Took me a while to find him, but my boyfriend does everything. Pays for everything, fills up my car when we’re together, takes my car to get the oil changed, cuts my grass, and he just bought a 4 bedroom house for when my 3 kids and I eventually move in with him after we get married. He’s one of a kind for sure ❤️
2026-09-03 01:57:17
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Necexoxo :
I ultimately decided I can’t date. A single mom working a full time job the last thing I want to deal with is a man and his “needs” especially the men these days. I’ve found peace with being single and content with it just being me and my son! I also don’t want to introduce no man to my son especially if you don’t plan on sticking around.
2026-09-03 01:49:18
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Lover Legacy 🫰🏽🖤 :
If I got to get my life in order no matter if it’s a big or small situation, I’m not gonna be around peoples lives to please them because they want me around. My focus is my situations that I’m locked in because it revolves around my future for my child and me. And I’m not dropping everything to go have fuckin fun for the sake of others who weren’t around when I needed them for something serious. And that’s on boundaries. 🌸
2026-09-20 22:17:59
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vixenmartemez :
Girl, if you MUST date make that dude pay for EVERYTHING. And don’t move no dude into your house
2026-08-30 21:51:00
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It’s.rinababy :
Dating is the last thing on my mind. It’s so peaceful where I’m at in life.
2026-09-03 13:19:22
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laurenoh :
I will not be dating until my kids are out of the house. Not at all worth it in any way
2026-08-31 14:16:31
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Kenzie :
1. Once a man gets upset im not answering fast enough or dont have enough time there cut off i dont have help im in mommy mode 100% of the time if thata not respected i dont want it
2026-09-05 17:59:15
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Alice_ann 🌸 :
If you have your own place don’t let any man come over. That’s just my rule and safety for my kids. Also don’t bring a man around your kids unless you’re for sure about him and been dating for a long time
2026-08-26 08:52:21
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Des🪶 :
Before I allowed my (now) husband around my son I background checked him and waited 6 months into us dating before I introduced them. Kept the interactions short until I knew he was in it for the long haul. STOP LETTING STRANGERS AROUND YIUR CHILDREN!
2026-09-03 03:12:02
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Melissa Menser :
It’s lonely but its definitely going to be worth it. Not having to stress over a man and putting all ur energy to you and your kids 🫶🏼
2026-09-01 03:52:16
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bankrollkittyy :
Don’t be around anyone that u wouldn’t want them growing up to be like.
2026-09-04 11:11:42
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Jenna | Author🌙🧿📚 :
I ONLY hang out with him every other weekend when I don't have my kiddo, and he's so patient about it. I'm sticking to a solid 3 month rule before letting potential partners meet anyone.
2026-09-04 01:11:19
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Teerific :
They won’t meet my daughter until they’ve proven they can handle “fatherhood” subtle hints or even comments they make on whatever I ask them or “hypothetically” is what will determine if they have that “this is our family now” mentality.. ✨
2026-09-09 20:06:23
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Sonder :
I’m just not dating as a single mom. It’s not worth it to me. these are my kids childhood years and I want to make the best of it
2026-09-03 03:49:36
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Scar 🤍 :
Literally don’t date until your child is older
2026-09-03 00:26:24
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Jeanette :
I’m a single mom I don’t date. If love didn’t work for me before why would I try again. I have a daughter that loves me more than any man will and that I love more than any man. Why would I open the door to a man that could be a rapist, predator, child molester, groomer, DV, or just a weirdo. I’m genuinely waiting for that soul mate my where you see someone and you just know you’ll be with them forever. Now that I know what real love is I’ll never settle for less.
2026-09-03 14:37:04
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Alexis :
I’m not paying for ANYTHING.
2026-09-02 16:58:24
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⛓️𝔪𝔞𝔠𝔞𝔟𝔯𝔢 𝔪𝔬𝔪𝔪𝔶⛓️ :
i’m just not dating. they’re all losers and/or liars. i made the mistake of letting someone meet my son, we broke up, and i regret it everyday
2026-09-03 03:19:42
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que sera sara :
i don’t participate. maybe when my kids are teenagers. they have just been through so much. i wouldn’t be able to handle the guilt of them getting close to someone and losing them again
2026-09-02 16:36:02
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