I understand the idea behind staying calm and not reacting, but I don’t think it works with every person who behaves narcissistically or abusively. Some people simply don’t back down when you remain calm they see your silence as an opportunity to push further and take advantage of you.
I know of a couple where the wife behaves this way. When her husband stopped reacting to her provocations and remained completely calm, instead of backing down, she physically pushed him with her feet.
So sometimes it’s not about giving them the reaction they’re looking for. Some people will continue escalating regardless of how calm you are. We shouldn’t romanticize “staying calm” as a universal solution when we’re dealing with someone who is genuinely abusive and has no respect for boundaries.
Being calm can protect your peace, but sometimes you also need firm boundaries and consequences.
org yg Sy berhadapan ni dia NPD tapi dia yg buat silent treatment
2026-09-10 11:12:10
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Nehra :
Manipulation no 1
2026-10-05 17:58:57
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Dahlia76 Md.D :
sy rasa bila dia tgh marah meluap2 tu..sy dah tkda rasa apa2 pun..marah tdk merajuk tdk..sy mcm tuli dah..tgok je muka dia..suara dia tkda masuk dlm telinga sy...bila dia nk abis marah n bertnya apa pun soalan..sy akan jwp ok..entah..terpulang lah ...terus dia masam muka mcm telan 1 botol cuka..
kdg2 sy hairan knp sy tkda rasa apa2..klu dulu smpi nangis2 meraung2 bagai..rendah kn diri sdiri.. please make me understand why skg sy gitu.
2026-09-14 11:43:26
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¥_TIGER_🐯 :
TENANG
2026-08-22 10:52:32
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user7233430023156 :
terima kasih sblumm ni Sy TK terfikir
2026-09-06 02:51:28
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firdaus :
Alhamdulillah, dapat.
2026-08-19 18:57:12
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MENCARI RADHO ALLAH :
kau tenang dan buat bodoh dah malas ayan
2026-09-30 12:41:23
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toyentoyen5 :
Ramai rupanya ..cuma ramai tk tahu sbb tkda info..sekarang semua bole senyum sbb dh tahu nk handle
2026-08-23 04:08:16
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Hailputra :
alhamdulillah,terima kasih untuk ilmu nya
2026-08-24 14:28:00
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Chandru Shatish :
saya dah buang tepi...bertahan selama 8 tahun...semata mata ada supply baru.
2026-08-22 07:45:34
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ZAA HAS :
tenang
2026-10-07 11:20:12
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Qalbi :
Dia maki , carut n hina.. saya diam. biar dia berapi2.😁😁😁. bila dia taip pendek sy taip panjang. Lepas tu sy hide last seen, status, dia wsap 4 bulan sy x jawab..blue tick pun off. Trus dia ngadu dgn org lain dia saya block
2026-09-28 04:36:39
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🌻 :
tenang
2026-08-20 17:09:21
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I'm somebody :
Tenang
2026-08-22 06:39:08
2
aiman tak kesah :
tenang
2026-10-08 03:22:28
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AstroMommy_Lens :
TENANG
2026-10-04 12:07:08
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ina61271 :
cuba lupa kan hati tenang skrg
2026-09-20 08:20:04
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Novelis Afieyza Isahak :
Pernah senyum je. Dia marah, kau jangan nak senyum². Dok ulang suruh kita mtk maaf tu la benda yg berulang sampai dia sejuk hati. Dah mcm hamba 😔
2026-09-17 10:56:14
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𝅙ايبو، _ :
tenang
2026-08-31 09:51:47
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Wewe Lin Razlin :
[Crying][Crying]..takut nak buat..byk pendam..bila.bersuara..dia senyum sapu muka saya dgn tangan dan yerus jalan...entahhhh..x jd marah..senyap terusss..blurr
2026-10-07 09:10:17
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sorangibu :
dah malas nk baca bab2 npd ni..tak berbaloi🙄baik fokus kt diri sendirii..hati senang,hidup riang🤭😁🥰
2026-09-23 05:00:57
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. :
tenang
2026-09-22 12:03:58
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Albaz@S4 :
tenang
2026-08-22 16:12:56
0
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