@relationsh1psfacts: The best way to compliment a guy if you want him actually obsessed, not just flattered 😳 SAVE THIS 1. READ THE WHOLE METHOD FIRST How to compliment a man isn't the same as complimenting a woman. Go through this fully before you send your next one. 2. COMPLIMENT WHAT HE DOES, NOT JUST HOW HE LOOKS Men hear looks based compliments way less than you'd think, but they hear "you handled that well" even less. Specific praise like this hits different. 3. BE SPECIFIC, NOT GENERAL "You're so smart" lands flat. "The way you explained that earlier actually impressed me" sticks with him for days. 4. SAY IT ONCE, DON'T REPEAT IT The best compliments for him work because they're rare. Saying the same thing constantly cancels out the effect. 5. DON'T FOLLOW IT WITH A QUESTION Send the compliment and let it stand alone. Adding "don't you think?" right after makes it about you, not him. 6. TIME IT RANDOMLY A compliment out of nowhere works harder than one that's clearly a reply to him fishing for it. 7. WATCH HOW HE RESPONDS This actually tells you something. If a genuine compliment doesn't visibly land or get acknowledged at all, notice that. Don't keep pouring effort into a man who brushes off everything you give him. 8. MENTION SOMETHING SMALL HE DID Noticing the little things, the way he remembered something, the way he handled a situation, means more than commenting on his appearance ever will. 9. KEEP IT SHORT One clear line beats a paragraph explaining why you're complimenting him. Let it be simple. 10. DON'T UNDERCUT IT WITH A JOKE Resist the urge to soften a genuine compliment with "jk" or a laugh emoji. Let it just be sincere. 11. SAVE THIS FOR WHEN HE'S HAD A ROUGH DAY This is when a genuine compliment does the most work, not just during good moments. 12. TRUST YOUR OWN VOICE Say it the way you'd actually talk to him. A compliment that doesn't sound like you doesn't land the same way. Which one are you trying first 👀 tell me in the comments #datingtips #relationshipadvice #complimentsformen #relationshiptok

R.MENIER 📚 Author :

You forgot to tell him that he smells good

Charlotte Murray :

Hmmm if a man said all this to me I’d run away. That’s way too much 😳

Artfan405 :

apparently smell is important 😆

ℐ𝒟𝒢ℱ :

NEVER compliment a guy

Henna ❤️ :

Yeah my ego would never let me say these things 😂

StarFishAries :

I said most of these to my side man

heeehz :

🏹💓blondie :

I’m noticing a theme with smell

aivilo.e :

Smell…. 2&5&7

𝔐𝔞𝔯𝔱𝔦𝔫𝔞 :

dont say these unless u actually mean it pls!

noor :

why on the damn earth would i want to compliment a guy

jamiii_1998 :

gosh they sound so corny

Mei :

bruh i dont chase😂

HeyJezuz :

A guy here, women would think of that but let their ego get in the way and not say it. Men also crave these complements but use wisely. Or just let him go so to someone else.

♡ :

i don’t chase, if he doesn’t become obsessed with me naturally i don’t want him

c l o v e r :

And all these things, are all the truth. When i say them, they are the things i feel with the person. Honestly, truthfully from my heart. Glad to know, that these are the things, that could possibly make the person, happier. Even just for a day 😊

❤︎ ☠︎︎ 𝕯𝖆𝖗𝖑𝖎𝖓𝖌 ☠︎︎ ❤︎ :

gonna use these for evil purposes only

llisaonline :

But… I don’t think any of that. How is that possible to say such things to a man?

Laura Mung'asia :

why 😆

love mimi 🎀 :

I will never boost a man’s ego like that.

Kanie :

I cringed reading these omg lol he better be top of the line for me to say majority of em lmao

Wamalamadingdong :

Smell is on the list 3x? Lol 😂

gillian :

say sth to make them feel sexy