@dukuly.bah.jr: HOW TO AVOID FIGHTS IN YOUR MARRIAGE 1. Listen patiently before reacting. 2. Express your feelings without blaming. 3. Pause the talk if emotions rise too high. 4. Focus on solutions, not winning arguments. 5. Say sorry quickly when you’re wrong. 6. Keep your tone calm during disagreements. 7. Avoid digging up old issues unnecessarily. 8. Understand their view before defending yours. 9. Choose the right time for sensitive topics. 10. Remind each other you’re on the same team. 11. Clear up misunderstandings before they grow. 12. Never argue in front of others. 13. Accept differences instead of trying to “fix” them. 14. Lighten the mood with gentle humor. 15. Focus on what you control, not your partner. 16. Avoid conflict when tired, hungry, or stressed. 17. Praise more than you criticize. 18. Set healthy boundaries for better communication. 19. Stay patient even in tough moments. 20. Remember: love matters more than being right.