Genuine question, is it bad that I want them to reach out so I can tell them to go kick rocks?
2026-08-18 16:53:21
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Moe :
What if she does that and says “i dont want no contact” when u try going no contact
2026-08-19 11:19:16
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Valentin :
avoidants are just problematic people
2026-08-19 00:01:19
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elsycx :
DONT WAIT FOR THEM. You deserve better than someone who can give up on you, someone who didn’t choose you. Choose yourself. Grow within yourself, pour that love back into you, and learn to detach. I know it’s easier said than done, but you have to understand that you deserve someone who chooses you without hesitation.Stop waiting for someone to realize your worth when you can choose to recognize it yourself. You deserve better.
2026-08-18 22:17:36
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xlimpinx :
They do not always come back. If they do.. the second discard is worse
2026-08-18 23:13:00
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maya papaya :
Btw everything they put you through IS emotional abuse. LEAVE
2026-08-19 04:12:44
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Emi 🐚 :
He was just using me until his ex came back
2026-08-18 22:51:27
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𝕵𝖚𝖑𝖎𝖆 ⛓️🎀 :
He kept saying “I want you and the relationship just not right now” even the night he broke up with me
2026-08-18 18:32:51
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Kayla.. :
still love her tbh
2026-08-19 10:20:13
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Amberosia :
Why did they block me like a month into no contact 😂
2026-08-18 17:59:24
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Annie 💥 :
Does this happen even if the avoidants ego is massive ? And rarely backs down
2026-08-18 18:29:07
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Izzah Aqilah :
My avoidant boyfriend asked for space after I called him out for something he did that hurt me. He didn't give me any reassurance at all. After he said he wanted space, I completely stopped replying. I basically disappeared from his life like I was dead.
But every night, he would call me once. If I didn't pick up, he'd send me a message saying good night. He's been doing this every night since day one and now it's been 10 days of no contact.
So now I'm confused. Does he actually want space or not?
2026-08-19 03:03:28
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So was it a bad idea for me to keep bothering and asking questions everyday after our breakup to him..leading me to looking desperate.. cuz few days ago he actually admitted to not wanting to actually be friends/talk anymore . I think I pushed him away even more
2026-08-18 19:53:25
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Just-Russ :
How many times will the avoidant go through this cycle?
2026-08-18 17:56:14
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McLaren :
They never came back.
2026-08-19 00:21:50
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cs1234567893 :
Or they just don’t like you, right?
2026-08-18 20:24:57
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ora :
don't ever call me anxious again
2026-08-19 02:52:06
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divinely_dani :
What if they are in therapy…still trying to see if they are ready and say they need time to understand their feelings?
2026-08-19 02:58:14
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jose_7luis2 :
Yall hear me out. You attract what you are. If they leave, let them. Become the best version of yourself and wait for no one.
2026-08-18 22:28:22
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SW :
I literally blocked him everywhere all the way down to email and he’s too much of a coward to show up to my home and apologize. So, therefore I win and I’m moving along.
2026-08-18 21:30:16
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Benjerman :
Dont date avoidants
2026-08-18 22:09:36
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brianna :
i do not claim
2026-08-19 03:56:27
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. :
why is my avoidant ex taking so long and now rebounding with some random dude she friendzoned years ago
2026-08-18 18:21:46
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emma_naylor01 :
Mine gave me no choice but to end it with him. It wasn’t what I wanted 😢but I wasn’t going to keep being told he would ring me and then not ring me. But then would text?
2026-08-18 16:59:50
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