It's good for me in the sense that it's better than keeping in contact. Yes it would have been better to not have abusive parents but I don't. The last thing my Dad said to me before I cut him off was "f**k you". I can promise that not speaking to him is so much better for me than putting up with abuse.
2026-08-18 20:06:22
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bec :
It’s a shitty parent problem
2026-08-18 19:51:03
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DCP :
Nope they were still a malignant narcissist who tried in every way to hurt me even after I moved. She stocked me and did the flying monkey trashing me to every one…. But that part was not new she had done that from the day I was born.
2026-08-18 17:31:39
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deb712 :
I was in my 50s and finally had enough and it was the hardest thing I have ever done. I went through a rollercoaster of emotions but I had to do what was best for me
2026-08-18 16:34:05
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Kate Meaney :
estrangement is the last resort, it comes after multiple failures and its a choice that you're made to make for your own best interests
2026-08-18 18:56:59
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shiftbangboom :
I looked at it this way, what am I gaining when I hang out with them?.....nothing. What am I losing by not replying?......Nothing!
2026-08-18 17:16:30
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didsomebodysaypatricia :
My Therapist told me “stop trying to milk the Bull” it’s exhausting.
2026-08-18 19:06:31
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lou lou :
you can't have a conversation with a narcissistic mother because they don't see anything wrong with their behaviour, they don't remember anything they done or said, they shut you down as soon as you say something they don't like, according to her I had a perfect life. 10 years no contact best thing I ever done. it took years to actually walk away .
2026-08-18 19:08:04
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lou :
you can't have a conversation with narcisistic parents. they say things like you're too sensitive and I'm your parent do as I say, they're never happy with anything you do and put siblings against each other. we only cut off after yeeeaaars of trying
2026-08-18 19:23:06
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duchessofawesomeness :
If it didn’t bother my parents so much, then why were they constantly calling the police to my house to ask me to call them?
2026-08-18 19:02:35
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ankie :
cut my dad and brother years ago... mum 2.5 now. its finally calm around me and my children ❤️🩹🇧🇻
2026-08-18 20:03:25
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ᛗ Kaz ᛗ :
its not
its horrendous
its grief without actually losing that person to death
2026-08-18 19:02:31
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Kimmy :
Went no contact with a sibling 7 yrs ago. It was the best choice I made, I have peace of mind.
2026-08-18 19:04:31
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The Dogs Who Helped :
Estrangement was the best choice I made for me, not easy, hard af but I couldn't imagine living with them in my life
2026-08-18 16:31:36
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Kat.213 :
It's definitely him!
2026-08-18 18:02:51
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🦇Jay🦇 :
Why do they always assume we haven't tried talking and just jumped straight to going no contact? I tried SO many times to tell my mother her behavior was unacceptable, and all I got in return was "Oh well, that's just the way I am, I guess I'm just a bad mom" no apologies, no attempt to stop hurting me. So I did what I had to do to stop being hurt. I do not and will not regret my decision.
2026-08-18 16:48:35
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👑🌍Amy🌻 혜미 🐑 :
The decider for me was having my own children and realising I didn’t want that toxicity in their lives too. Estranged from both my parents… I’m not ok with it at all… it carries its own burdens, but I’m better than the alternative of having them in my life. I managed to break the cycle with my own kids too. But it’s hard. Sending strength to all my other self imposed orphans. 🩷
2026-08-18 17:42:33
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Ghostwarrior :
I tried for twenty years to talk them got me know where what other option was I left with
2026-08-18 17:14:56
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whodis_smt :
A parent saying, “I don’t care if they come back” like it’s a mic drop is exactly the problem.
2026-08-18 22:00:23
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MK :
I am no contact more than 10 years now ....the best time of my life ...about my parent not so good ....they have no one to rip of 💁🏼
2026-08-18 19:27:04
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Rise-chan :
Do they think we just wake up one day like "I'm bored, let's cut off a family member today cause why not 🤷♀️" ?? 🙄
2026-08-18 20:05:30
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Maria Moutinho :
I cut the relationship with my parents due to extreme all sorts of abuse and I been diagnosed with numerous mental disorders due to the abuse and trauma I am doing ok lol
2026-08-18 21:20:10
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JenJen :
Damn, I liked that guy. Ewe.
2026-08-18 22:20:26
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JSmith :
agree with each and every thing you have said 🥰
2026-08-18 21:55:26
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Froggy86 :
I made the mistake of stopped to watch a video from the narcissistic mother and now that’s all I hear, it makes me want to fucking scream 😂
2026-08-18 17:38:25
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