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Cool World :
I've simply accepted isolation and alienation. The schizoid dynamics have made being a normal part of the community frustrating if not impossible.
2026-08-19 06:58:49
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ursula___9 :
it’s fixable ??? 🙏
2026-09-10 16:23:55
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⭐Arti(e)cus🌙 :
oh so that's what that is. Thank you for this. I've been struggling with self isolation because of my desire to be understood with a huge fear of actually being known
2026-08-18 18:39:28
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Benny911 :
Whats it called when you want to connect but can’t make yourself care abt anyone like that
2026-09-11 03:49:28
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Liz <3 :
I didn't know about this, but it's a problem that I have been struggling with a lot lately. It has made me feel really depressed, because I am lonely and I miss my friends, but I feel like I just don't fit in anywhere I go. And I keep unintentionally isolating myself from them because I'm scared that whenever we hang out they notice that I act weird. And then I feel guilty because it probably makes them think I'm not interested, when I really miss them. Thank you for sharing this!
2026-08-18 22:36:18
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(=^ ◡ ^=) :
schizoids dont have a desire to connect with people lol. youre thinking of avpd what is your reasoning for calling this behavior schioid dynamics when it doesnt match actual schizoid behavior at all
2026-08-19 21:59:32
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hallylimm :
What if it’s me that feels intrusive
2026-08-18 21:18:43
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🌈MeltedVinyls Comms:open 💿 :
ohh.. oh...
2026-08-18 22:17:20
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💟myah🚺 :
In conversations, I tend to be the listener. I always listen intently and carefully respond, but when it’s my turn to share, I am so withdrawn. I’m worried that letting myself be “vulnerable”, even with the smallest things, if I don’t get that reciprocal energy then I’m done and turn to protection mode.
2026-08-19 00:09:33
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autumnpistols :
yeah and it sucks to want connection, initiate it, then regret ever wanting it in the first place bc it's just too much overall
2026-08-19 01:11:06
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Alex :
My issue is that whenever I’m around people they cause me so much anxiety and frustration that I just don’t want to give up my peace or degrade exiting relationships. It’s to the point that I wonder if I have autism but it wasn’t this bad when I was younger
2026-08-18 19:52:46
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mixes and stuff :
I don’t have a fear of being intruded upon a fear of intruding because I always get rejected
2026-08-18 20:58:17
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devinISwonderless(i promise) :
you just described exactly me, i long so deeply to feel like i matter or feel important or connected to someone or something who understands me and i put so much into understanding everybody and making them feel welcome and important but when people actually put interest into me i feel wrong and feel like im gonna hurt them or hurt myself somehow and that the best thing to do is leave everyone alone and i withdraw myself despite wanting not to be alone then i repeat it
2026-08-18 22:07:36
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The Divine Maximalist 🔮 :
clocked my tea fr
2026-08-19 04:35:07
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honey :
Everytime I actually share with other people and they feel bad for me, I stop sharing. I really try not to but I dont want to be off putting to others. My experiences are not something relatable to most people so I almost always feel alienated to some capacity.
2026-09-03 05:20:02
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Kiersten McCormick :
Nailed it
2026-08-19 11:55:00
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tiddy6669 :
RIP you’ve helped me realize a lot of things
2026-08-19 06:45:35
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wasteofwhat :
Yes 😭 it feels as though I speak a foreign language no one understands, and other times it feels as though everyone else speaks a language I don’t understand. I’m permanently lost in translation :(
2026-08-19 05:51:15
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???% :
omfg...... i have a problem with this cycle when it comes to dating bc as soon as anyone shows mild interest i feel literally disgusted. i didn't know anyone else ever felt this way
2026-08-19 06:29:32
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ash :
so what happens when you’re aware of the cycle and what caused it but you still keep doing it anyways 😀
2026-08-20 13:12:43
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primmyyimmyy :
would you say this kind of mimics bipolar disorder?
2026-08-23 23:01:11
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shantayloshine :
No one has ever put it into words and been able to make sense of the internal world that I’ve lived like this.
2026-09-02 16:47:27
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Cesar :
Is this not disorganized attachment?
2026-08-19 06:25:42
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cosmic.indigo :
Sounds like an avoidant.
2026-08-19 23:55:20
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amarx 🪿 :
what’s the best medication that usually works for schizoid / schizoaffective traits?
2026-08-20 22:42:35
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