all "spanking" is abuse, but pre spank is diabolical.
2026-08-18 22:17:28
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oatmealra1s1ncook1e :
May I add: forcing your child to eat something (usually vegetables, but it could be anything) or not allowing them to leave the table until they eat something IS ABUSE. I’m a dietitian and this is a hill I will die on. The “clean plate club” is abusive.
2026-08-19 18:55:56
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ell 🌹 :
‘Embarrassing your kids’ is shouting too loud at school award ceremonies or dancing badly at weddings when they’re also there, not humiliating your child!
2026-08-18 18:50:46
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Em :
Why do people who hate children have children?
2026-08-19 02:02:47
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Zkilla4Eva💀 :
I am so sorry. from the start, just pure evil abuse you poor baby
2026-08-22 08:23:35
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Jaycee :
pre-spanking?! your parents sound insane im so sorry.
2026-08-18 21:17:33
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lizmo rizschmo :
“i’m supposed to embarrass my kids” means like showing up to a school function in a silly hat not actual humiliation
2026-08-19 13:34:27
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kristinsierraaa :
“I don’t know why my kids won’t speak to me.”
2026-08-19 17:50:45
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Ivory :
“Embarrassing” your kids means being a silly dorky mom or dad in public, not publicly shaming them.
2026-08-19 18:52:18
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Jordan :
I vividly remember when popular culture started calling these things out as abuse, and everyone’s parents were mad. I remember getting older and telling them I would call the cops on them and it would ENRAGE them 🤪
2026-08-18 21:05:43
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Lillylover :
Hitting kids at all is abuse whether your country agrees or not, it’s proven scientifically to do the same damage.
2026-08-18 21:20:07
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Pepperanne :
My little brother used to get 3 swats from the principal every morning when he got to school! That was an arrangement between him and my mom cause he was “bound to be bad” I hated it so much 😭
2026-08-20 15:35:17
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nsmith :
35ish!! I didn’t know allot of stuff wasn’t normal! Yup we did soap!
2026-08-22 03:50:57
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Samantha Gray Wolfe :
The test for abuse with your child is asking 'would I do it to another adult'
2026-08-22 08:03:09
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Just like Mabel :
I'm a Gen zer and yes we did, although I was the guinea pig kid
2026-08-22 04:39:20
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Hasselbeck_VO :
my aunt once put soap in my mouth because I was "a dirty little liar"
I was maybe 4 or 5, and I had accidentally gotten dirt in my cousin's eyes while we were playing. she thought I was lying about it being an accident
2026-08-22 05:27:33
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Javi :
I can’t with people excusing spanking. It makes me sick. How can you look at a child and want to inflict pain? Sick the lot of them
2026-08-19 03:42:08
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Cassbenellie’sGarden :
Spanking math is WILD 😭😭😭😭
2026-08-19 14:21:53
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Mel (they/them) 🖤🩶🤍💚🤍🩶🖤 :
Spanking children at all is SA
2026-08-18 19:51:00
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Nicole Mortensen :
My stomach hurts thinking that someone would do this to a child.
2026-08-20 08:37:21
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MikaWB ❤️’s To Read 📚🤓 :
Wait…I was pretty badly abused as a kid and I’ve never heard of pre spanking. That’s wild
2026-08-18 20:04:08
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Austin Meier :
because apparently there are a large number of proud child abusers here in the comments, just a gentle reminder that ALL spanking is abuse. intentionally inflicting pain in ANY way to your child is abuse
2026-08-19 15:01:52
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thatemokid :
children have been tortured like theyre war criminals. like who the fuck thinks this is normal?
2026-08-18 22:43:20
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Toni Housas :
I uno reversed my mom with the bar of soap… I decided Zest soap was delicious and ate 3 bars of it in 10 minutes. That was an embarrassing hospital trip and she never tried that again. 😂😭
2026-08-20 16:35:34
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Krista :
“I don’t understand why my kids are so ungrateful and don’t speak to me”
2026-08-19 22:02:59
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