@drjoelgator: “How was school?” “Fine.” “What did you do?” “Nothing.” A beautiful conversation. Really rich stuff. 😂 Sometimes the problem isn’t that our kids don’t want to talk. It’s that we keep asking questions that are incredibly easy to shut down. Try questions that give them somewhere to go: What made you laugh today? Who did you sit with at lunch? What was the hardest part of your day? Did anything surprise you? You may start with a story about somebody sneezing milk out of their nose and somehow end up hearing about a friendship problem they’ve been carrying around all day. And when they finally tell you something important, resist the urge to immediately fix it, lecture, investigate, call the school, create a spreadsheet, and convene a family summit. Sometimes the most powerful response is simply: “Tell me more.” Connection usually works better than interrogation. #Parenting #Kids #ParentingTips #ChildDevelopment

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ccipriana
🇨🇦🇪🇺 CIPRIANA🇪🇺🇨🇦 :
I used to ask my children just: "good news, bad news? let's go to eat". 😁
2026-08-24 18:36:54
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laransom711
laransom711 :
I just tried this and my kids looked at me like I was stupid
2026-08-19 23:09:38
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batchayilwm
🅱🅰🆃🅲🅷🅰🆈🅸🅻🆆🅼🦋 :
Who else asked , what food / snacks everyone ate today? Teachers outfit color? Was your friend there ? Any interesting topic discussed and explained ? My daughter practices her flight attending exam papers with me 🤣
2026-08-24 23:06:42
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saintuncle2
Keith. :
True. I learnt this Abit earlier. I ask my 5 yr old, what did you eat at break, who did you share with, what funny thing did the teacher say???? Man then she pours out stories both funny and concerning then I give her a Dad's big hug. thanks for helping parents
2026-08-24 20:40:50
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lakabram20
LaKabraM :
Wow, never thought of this. I always ask how school was.
2026-08-19 13:18:33
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lostschefflera
Curly Chaos 🌜️ :
Thank you...i will start exactly the same way from tomorrow
2026-08-24 16:20:44
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josilva2789
Jo Silva5703 :
My kid yaps instantly when he steps foot in the car 😅
2026-08-24 02:52:28
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stellapercy001
Stella Percy Billion 💵 💵 :
okkkkkk I will try this
2026-08-24 20:19:40
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colewurll
Dym Nicole :
I ask my son “ what was the best part of your day today”
2026-08-20 02:48:09
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yesi080.1
yesi :
mine tells me everything he did 😅
2026-08-19 19:48:10
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mrtikkie
MyLittleTShop :
for the other 4 questions most kids will answer “Nothing” 😂😂😂
2026-08-19 19:43:52
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girldad18_24
GirlDad :
Thanks! Now what should I ask my wife when she gets home from work?🤔
2026-08-19 20:09:12
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whiskeybuffalo
whiskeybuffalo :
I asked my daughter what made her laugh at school today... she said "when I saw your face" (I raised her right but still chill lady 🤣)
2026-08-19 19:38:44
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jannah200008
jannah200008 :
What are the 4 questions
2026-08-19 12:51:33
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deathwishcrypto1
DeathWishCrypto :
Try asking this to a 17yo daughter 🤣🤣 "I don't wanna talk right now, but what's for dinner?" 🤣🤣
2026-08-20 22:22:25
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perfectlyauthentic
💎IMPECCABLE BRANDY👑 :
Let’s see how this goes 🏃🏽‍♀️💨 🏠
2026-08-20 19:14:11
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reactance1
Reactance :
Ya been through these. Works for about a week and they catch on. Next!!!
2026-08-19 12:19:49
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yasmirgfy4m
diiiizzz :
I tried these the other day, and Mike had literally took out his headphone and it was the best dinner I’ve ever had in my life
2026-08-22 04:51:40
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simonjzl
SimonJZL :
I don't ask. If they wanna tell me, I will listen then ask
2026-08-20 04:02:41
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aliciag1313
Aligirl :
How about who has homework 🤣
2026-08-19 20:31:25
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tellosandy09
tezadie09 :
Mine (teen) gets in the car after every day and on the drive home talks to about his entire day starting from when he woke up ❤️
2026-08-19 21:22:53
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fox_unchained
FoX :
good ideas. but does this work for 7 year Olds? 🤣
2026-08-19 17:27:34
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user6871739928340
dudley :
Did you learn anything today
2026-08-19 16:55:51
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10sanyone
Jayson :
excellent advice, I used many of those questions when my twin boys were growing up. now there both Freshman at UF in the honors program💯
2026-08-20 03:28:49
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sergthedeejay1
sergthedeejay :
Question 1; are you no longer saying 6 followed by 7?
2026-08-20 00:44:54
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