I don't think it's rude to say no. I don't think it's rude to ask. I think it's rude to not accept no as an answer.
2026-08-18 23:34:36
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Thea🤍 :
Honestly, airlines just shouldn’t charge for sitting together. It’s disgusting
2026-08-18 21:00:01
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ccptancrunch :
It fine if it’s an equivalent swap
2026-08-19 01:25:15
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Lin :
Well you can ask but should respect declining
2026-08-18 21:02:02
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BBB0123 :
We all understand and relate to someone asking. its the fact people dont take no for an answer.
2026-08-18 21:16:33
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Duke :
People aren’t really mad about the ask. It’s about the entitlement that comes if you say no.
2026-08-19 00:37:28
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Rosie :
Same seat one row back, totally chill. Asking me to swap my aisle for a window? Absolutely not. You shouldn’t even be asking.
2026-08-19 01:13:23
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d0llsb0nes :
hot take all air plane seats suck
2026-08-18 20:56:08
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Francie Mak :
People are allowed to ask. People are allowed to say no. Why is this complicated to understand?????
2026-08-19 11:48:30
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user7946080759797 :
My take is that everyone is so busy blaming each other that they don’t blame who’s really at fault, which is THE AIRLINES - realistically, it should just be policy that minors are always automatically seated with a guardian on their reservation, without them having to pay to pick a seat. But airlines are so money hungry that they capitalize on a parent wanting to sit next to their six year old kid.
2026-08-18 23:11:03
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emilia :
people forget ab common decency and sense of community, simply asking is not offensive🫡🫶🏼
2026-08-18 20:56:46
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Jcariwanders :
you can ask but dont be mad if they say no
2026-08-18 22:38:49
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user8186114608565 :
People are becoming more and more isolated and unable to live in a society honestly. Basic kindness, understanding and politeness has been lost to people being lost in their own world
2026-08-18 23:46:32
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Marie 🇨🇦 :
I don't think the issue is asking, I think the real issue is people getting mad when the answer is no, because sometimes (like you said) it is, and the asker doesn't always want to ask someone else.
2026-08-18 21:36:02
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vanabu :
The point is that people in the middle seat row 56 ask for an aisle seat row 20
2026-08-18 21:14:26
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spacetiger127 :
If it’s asked nicely yes, but so many ppl are entitled and rude and demand to switch
2026-08-18 20:59:29
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Angela Marcela Ortiz :
Although I don’t get mad if it’s on equal conditions, I would get mad if I had to change my window for a middle or a downgrade or some kind
2026-08-18 21:00:34
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LP :
If the seat I paid for is the same as the one I’ve been asked to trade, no problem, but I’m not changing an aisle/window for a middle seat
2026-09-01 10:36:54
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Princess Tiana :
Isle for isle or window for window is not the issue. That’s the vast minority of cases I feel.
2026-08-19 02:22:09
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Aifeoz :
People asking to swap from 27c to 28c is not big deal. It’s when they want you to trade your window seat in the front of the plane to a middle seat in the back and don’t get why that’s a problem.
2026-08-19 09:27:40
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Clippity :
The faux pau isn't the asking, it's the guilt trip that follows afterwards when people turn down the individual because they don't want to give up the seat they paid for. I know you address this, but the basis of your video is focusing on the faulty premise that people think its rude to even ask.
2026-08-19 00:31:07
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Soph :
I think it’s perfectly acceptable to ask. But don’t yell at the person who declined to trade
2026-08-18 21:58:31
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Felicity Midcalf :
Gotta disagree….. the thing is airlines give you the option to pay a small fee to select your seat, I do this every time because I like to sit in a certain spot, people who want to trade because they decided they’d not pay the fee and would just burden someone else if they don’t get what they want is not on. If you don’t want to be separated from the people you’re travelling with, pay the fee. If you don’t want to pay the fee, you get what you get and you don’t get upset.
2026-08-18 21:09:40
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poppy :
You can ask, you shouldn’t film the person and post them then they refuse
2026-08-19 08:02:44
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