@craigwillard: We've confused being pleasant with being decent. They're not the same thing. #highperformer #mindset #craigwillard #highperformancemindset #highperformers #HighPerformerOS #fyp

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Tuesday 18 August 2026 21:19:21 GMT
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anenomenemesis
KAllDay :
There’s usually a gender divide here. High-performing men are promoted. High-performing women are called difficult or too intense.
2026-08-19 11:52:11
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mimipainthorsefilly
Painthorsefilly :
Women are especially called out for this as people don’t like direct women.
2026-08-19 01:59:29
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papa_smurf1990_19
your daddy :
I tell senior management the uncomfortable truth
2026-08-21 20:33:15
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small_town_someone1
Small town some1 :
I feel personally called out here
2026-08-21 20:13:04
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monster11082
monster11082 :
I'm the unpleasant asshole and proud of it
2026-08-19 11:37:24
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thatguymatt5oh
Matthew Ice :
A real friend doesn’t lie to you. They give you the truth so you learn and get better. If they allow you to struggle and be wrong just for the sake of being nice aren’t your true friends and don’t have your best interest at heart.
2026-08-21 16:26:28
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sonnyofliberty
Son of Liberty :
Nah we’re real. Times up
2026-08-21 07:04:54
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craig.cerny
craigcerny :
I'm the Whole Ass
2026-08-21 12:51:29
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mchelly2
Mchelly :
Yep, labeled as difficult while trying to improve processes, minimize risk, etc.
2026-08-19 12:40:15
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sdnukamike
MikesNukaRoast :
I hate not being listened to so I shove said issue in everyones face when top management is there.
2026-08-21 00:32:48
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kydub21
ky 😻 :
I got written up for explaining why we could not test a 3 week old specimen
2026-08-20 19:32:06
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theterryd
TheTerryD :
I don't get invited to those meetings anymore. 👍
2026-08-19 14:01:33
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rockbottomdreamer
Rock Bottom Dreamer :
Toxic positivity is a real thing.
2026-08-20 11:32:37
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fightfascist
fightfascist :
It’s because everyone else is lazy and spend too much time hanging around gossiping. Ridiculous.
2026-08-19 16:11:36
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gerth.brooks8
Gerth Brooks :
I like being the asshole😂
2026-08-19 18:29:17
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plunkett918
🏳️‍🌈Amy🏳️‍🌈 :
im tired of hearing " lets see how Amy handles it" and its just me asking them nicely once, when they refuse, i just remove them from the task and replace them. nothing rude, I just don't tolerate people flat out refusing to do their part. we are at work, the only thing I judge you by is your work ethic and how you treat your coworkers.
2026-08-19 19:40:23
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01noodle
noodles :
I'm the honest one and get told I'm being negative and am so wrong, then get told later on the quiet, how did you know that was going to happen?
2026-08-19 21:41:12
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nids411
Nids :
Exactly the fake tone
2026-08-19 16:05:39
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iancito4479
iancito :
I dont care what they think or call me, I know I am that good and better than some in leadership, period.
2026-08-19 20:28:22
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paulajo174
paulajo174 :
Was recently fired for "being the asshole". Literally what I was fired for: HR is resistant to change; IT team is struggling and needs help; if X Director oversees this department, I won't be working here. All three statements were true.
2026-08-19 14:03:04
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missmuchness
✨Phy✨ :
I just want to come to work and do my job. I don’t care about being liked and it’s exhausting to try to navigate workplace dynamics. I’m labeled as “frustrated and difficult” because I’m not fake. It took a lot of therapy to unlearn people pleasing but “thriving” at work relies on that.
2026-08-20 12:03:18
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ivietalhead
Metalhead :
I’m the asshole because I’m an asshole. But I’m an ass hole cuz I don’t have time for small talk and bullshit. Too much to do
2026-08-20 01:44:19
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frenchiemama_tx
FrenchieMama_TX :
Challenge the status quo….
2026-08-19 04:50:29
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millermaine88
Bzwww :
If they can’t handle honesty they’re the problem
2026-08-20 08:31:57
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danawinegarner
DWOhio :
High standards = Toxic in our current environment. I am not rude or mean, I just demand performance. And not perfection just well thought out and consistent improvement. I am sure there are toxic environments, but expecting clear concise communication and regular attendance is not that. Come to your reviews with valuable solutions and input. There are no participation award.
2026-08-20 14:27:44
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