@nicoleeeesams: the spotlight effect is real #advice #SelfImprovement

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claudetteerickson
user7377218060267 :
Everyone thinks about themselves too much
2026-08-20 15:18:19
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tehelucytehee
tehelucytehe :
need to take this advice
2026-08-25 14:08:52
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hi.itsme.b
hi.itsme.b :
Can I send this to my friend or would that be rude
2026-08-18 23:36:36
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sydneyfancher
Sydney Fancher :
I wish I could get out of my own head 🥲🥲
2026-08-23 22:12:52
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pisces.princess2301
pisces.princess2301 :
I needed to hear this SERIOUSLY. How do I stop doing this tho?
2026-08-19 02:05:32
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electricbutterfly3
Electricbutterfly3 :
So tell me everything is not about me But what if it is?
2026-08-22 19:48:09
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brewpack79
Brewpack :
Is this video about me?
2026-08-20 19:38:48
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liushanbao
S :
i always tell myself something could happen to anyone, and it’s just coincidence that it happened to me
2026-08-20 09:07:09
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madimoon.2
Madison :
Ok where did you get your shirt from
2026-08-21 21:49:46
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daniliciouss.s
❀ :
We think about ourselves 100x more than anyone else thinks about us
2026-08-23 08:41:06
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thesweetlifeofangel
SweetAngel Yamut Figuracion :
idk there’s this lady that I can’t get on my side lol I’m stating to think she hates me. 😭
2026-08-24 09:39:45
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xtina.elizabeth
Christina :
this is so real
2026-08-22 02:23:20
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mommy_of__4
C💕 :
My ADHD brain can’t do this lol
2026-08-24 05:49:34
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taytayj33
TayTayJ :
No like this is SO obvious when grandkids start coming. I’m an aunt and I never take anything my sister does about my nephew personally. Goes to her in laws for Christmas? Do it!!! The grandparents on the other hand…. Miserable
2026-08-20 23:37:26
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orangeyougladitsjas
Jas :
YES. Like most of the time it’s just not that deep
2026-08-22 15:58:16
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merridth2024
Meredith :
How can I send this to myself
2026-08-22 20:02:05
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ffiirrmm
franc!sca :
say it louder!
2026-08-18 23:00:09
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mckenziemcmullen
McKenzie McMullen :
“You don’t need to think less of yourself. You just need to think of yourself less”
2026-08-20 20:30:48
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__xoxoxo68
__xoxoxo :
OK, but like how do you balance that with like if they were super flirty and texting you before and then all of a sudden their texts become dry or like they used to make plans with you and now they don’t it’s like how do you balance like it’s not personal with like I’ve seen this behavior before and there’s a shift and I’m not dumb
2026-08-20 23:32:23
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samarraez
samarraez :
this !!!!
2026-08-19 19:49:15
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madison.courtneyyy
Madi 🤍🌼 :
Omg I’ve been telling myself this so much recently!!!😭😭 So hard to let go of this when you’re an anxious control freak🫪😅
2026-08-23 04:06:15
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charisgraceee_
☆ charis grace ☆ :
could not have said it better
2026-08-18 23:21:20
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savilggg
Savil :
Yup yup and yup
2026-08-19 00:14:43
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emily70643
Emily :
Louder !
2026-08-19 00:20:41
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