Someone telling me “wow I feel so understood” is like the highlight of my life BUT not being understood is the bane of my existence
2026-08-19 04:48:12
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Undercover :
They don't want to understand you...
2026-08-19 05:37:46
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Yearning :
I spend my life behind a one way mirror
2026-08-19 05:44:49
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Julius Kresnik :
And then you're 'Too much' for wanting that effort reciprocated.
2026-08-19 09:11:37
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Quirky🩷🇩🇰 :
I swear people keep hearing shit I don't say when I speak. like I literally mean what I say, I don't mean some random stuff you came up with while I spoke, I mean what I said
2026-08-19 05:40:58
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🧞♀️ :
it’s terrible bc i can sympathise with ppl when they do me wrong and try to rationalise their behaviour
2026-08-19 02:12:56
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EmmaGils🇨🇦🇺🇸 :
Autism is not a linear spectrum, your brain functions differently, many autistic person doesn’t understand other people either, same for you, you may or may not understand another person with autism! We just categorize them based on their needs and supports…
2026-09-05 01:16:44
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FlyingRaccoon :
Neurotypicals are basically programmed in a way. They are very good at doing what they understand, but anything outside their experience and their programming, they just can't handle it.
2026-08-19 11:31:04
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JustJessica :
what if it's not autism... just evolution
2026-08-21 11:19:54
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elliot ⭐️ :
i feel this SO deeply.
2026-08-19 07:09:12
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backdoordweller :
I have had a million people tell me that they feel so understood and heard by me. The few times I thought I was in a safe space to feel heard or understood back by the people in my life they get physically uncomfortable and bring the subject back to them 😢
2026-09-03 19:48:18
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Cameron :
Me and my wife I think cracked the code on this one I think. We figured out that it was actually me not understanding and that she did actually understand me. When I would think I understood her I was kinda thinking about her circumstances as if I was in them vs how it actually felt in her perspective. We started calling it using myself as a baseline for simplicity. Not sure if it's something you may have considered already but possibly food for thought lol
2026-08-24 05:49:36
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❤️MιƚƈԋყRყυ🤍💫 :
I would honestly love if someone engaged with me to get to know me instead of the other way around
2026-09-04 04:19:30
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David fucked up :
it's a very lonely life
2026-09-03 22:34:14
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Julie & Kitty :
it's not even them not being able to... it's them not even trying... and not even caring to...
2026-08-21 13:38:46
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Rell :
I feel like it’s normal to do this to an extent too, like why shouldn’t we do our best to learn abt and understand our loved ones. I feel like it is a very basic form of empathy!
2026-08-23 17:29:59
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Jay :
when u mask their personality and they still be acting like ur weird bro im being U
2026-08-21 18:28:03
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Ancient Millennial :
Bottom up thinking! NTs are top down thinkers
2026-08-21 00:56:14
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Sophie :
this is SO REAL!! you explained it perfectly🥺 it’s sooo isolating and frustrating!!
2026-08-19 11:41:45
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JD37 :
or when u have to explain urself to neurotypical ppl that u are very direct and they take it as an insult
2026-08-19 06:13:00
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G :
I hate being around people
2026-08-21 00:58:47
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🌲Theo :
I love to map people out, it's like discovering in a open world game 😌 I wanna know what made you, you. I wanna know it all. I want to KNOW a person
2026-08-19 15:12:59
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Alina :
oh god should I get diagnosed
2026-08-19 14:14:56
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jacobguyer444 :
i don’t feel like most autistics are like this apart from me it’s hella weird
2026-08-18 22:18:39
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