@nursehadley: I never thought I would share this much publicly, but I also never thought I would have to spend 2.5 years proving why I should be allowed to leave my marriage. I had evidence, an incredible attorney, the ability to miss work, and the money to keep fighting. And it was still this hard. That is why I care so much about changing this law. Also, y’all, I was genuinely nervous about asking people to sign a petition if it was just going to sit online and go nowhere. I met with @Change.org last week and learned that once a petition builds enough support, their team can help bring it directly to lawmakers. That made me feel a lot better about asking. I’m already divorced. This won’t help me. I just really want it to be easier for the woman I used to be. Petition is on my page if you want to help.
Hadley (Vlahos) Fairley
Region: US
Tuesday 18 August 2026 22:42:46 GMT
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GA :
We NEED no fault divorce.
2026-08-18 22:58:44
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tinababina91 :
between you and Jen Hamilton, I'm thinking y'all are gonna help change the laws in Mississippi and North Carolina.
2026-08-19 02:18:15
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Melinda :
And this is why VOTING matters…
2026-08-18 23:09:52
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🖤 :
WTH ? “ you were never abused “ what’s wrong with him
2026-08-18 22:46:15
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Lianna :
and let me guess, most everyone in Mississippi is afraid of Sharia Law when theyre already living it. this is horrific.
2026-08-19 00:24:40
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ERIN | SAHM 🍓 :
I’m a survivor of DV, also. Signed & shared!!
2026-08-18 23:33:35
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xyz123absolutelynot :
Marriage is a contract. Other contracts are dissolved without all this fuss. Why not this?
2026-08-19 02:23:33
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Jill Everly :
They hire attorneys who are just like them.
2026-08-19 00:12:18
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🦄💖caulkNbahlz💖🦄 :
Why isn’t no fault divorce a thing all across the board 😭
2026-08-19 08:47:22
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anonymouscomment1234557 :
It’s just insane to me that they made you go to trial… this how it should be “hey, do you still want to be married to this man? No? Ok no problem, let’s figure out finances and the kids, and get you two divorced” wild.
2026-08-18 22:56:28
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Bo G Schulze :
Hadley, i’m an RN and i read your first book. it was so beautiful, it gave me comfort, and hearing your story has broken my heart. I CANNOT BELIEVE they made you prove your abuse. i’m so so sorry
2026-08-18 22:45:45
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Katie :
So proud of you for speaking out!
2026-08-18 22:46:04
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Kay :
Honestly I’m think he just get away with everything when it comes to you idk why but it seems pretty f ⬆️i would be getting a different lawyer or something !
2026-08-31 11:38:23
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theflyinmedic757 :
I am in a similar situation and have no idea what to do. Please help.
2026-08-30 16:16:49
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Case :
An 11-day divorce trial?????? Omg. That's horrible
2026-08-19 01:30:18
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Karen :
Ugh, that’s EXHAUSTING
2026-08-30 14:01:54
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Colleen🧡 :
Signed ❤️
2026-08-31 02:19:26
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Nicholas Harvey :
“You just don’t look like you’ve been abused” is so damaging. No heart in those people who say that so freely. How can people look someone in the eyes and say that???
2026-08-19 02:57:59
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Anna :
And they say “why didn’t she leave?”. Yea because it’s not that easy.
2026-08-25 07:50:12
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Arshay981 :
Any update from the investigator from your previous post?
2026-08-25 23:05:59
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365healthandhappiness :
But have you just got re married in the same state?
2026-08-18 23:41:51
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Pearl 🤍 :
can believe people are anti no fault divorce. yr so strong, im so sorry.
2026-08-18 22:48:23
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m.j.c.mc🇨🇦 :
No fault divorce is so important for women 💔 Why does your ex look familiar? Does he have an online presence ?
2026-08-18 23:25:20
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Cherie🦋 :
Mississippi divorce laws are insane! I'm so glad you are safe now!! I had to leave the state of Louisiana in 2000 to establish residency in the Midwest so I could get a divorce. It would have been almost impossible to prove DV under the laws in Louisiana.
2026-08-19 00:31:28
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🦋🌀Joy💙🦋 :
Signed and shared! Insane that it's so hard to get a divorce in MS. 😳
2026-08-18 23:33:59
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