@the.ilm.journal: Can I choose not to be strong? 😶 Because everyone keeps saying — be strong. Stay strong. You’re so strong. And I’m tired. 🤍 I’m tired of being strong. I’m tired of holding it together. I’m tired of pretending the waves aren’t pulling me under. And then @Ustaz Yussof Majid said something that stopped everything: Allah never asked you to be strong. He asked you to hold a rope. Just one rope. Because here’s the truth — Trials will come. Emotions will come. The grief, the confusion, the days where you can’t explain why everything just feels heavy — they will all come. And in the middle of all of it — Allah is not asking you to swim harder. He’s asking you to hold on. 🌿 “Hold firmly to the rope of Allah all of you together.” — Surah Ali Imran You don’t have to be strong. You just have to not let go. Even with shaking hands. Even through the tears. Even when holding on is literally all you have left. 🤲🏼 That is enough. You are enough. Just hold the rope. #HeartyEvenings #MentalHealth #ilmjournal #fyp #brunei Our official media partner: @BravoStudios

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nwnjml
nwnjml :
Ex-course mate during study in UIA. His English memang excellent. Really admire his intelligence, so quiet but so brilliant.
2026-08-23 03:08:27
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ardhanim17
ardhani :
yes,sometimes i used to think ‘can i give up?’ 😭..ujian x putus²..tapi jauh d sudut hati masih mengharap padaNya..
2026-08-21 00:18:46
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farshashire
roses and summer sky :
I do not know why this video came up to my feed. but i cried when i watch it. as if this video is THE ANSWER to my question that i am looking for..."oh Allah, can i stop being strong? i am tired, i am exhauted"... this video speak to my heart.
2026-08-20 11:31:17
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its_7scorpio
it's me 7Scorpio :
It's dakwah. Can be in any language depending on the audience 😢
2026-08-19 12:38:01
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triplef34
Mrs_F♥️ :
Apakan biskita ani… ia slalu if majlis ilmu memang bahasa melayu. Ani ngam masa sama anak2 muda, YOUTH. Pls la. Ia dlm video ani do sama anak2 muda. Which memang mostly english ba kita~~~ one of ustaz yg kami suka hadir jika ada majlis ilmu. ☝🏻 if jadi imam pun suaranya sampai menusuk terasa. Mudahan Allah swt mudahkan sgala urusannya.
2026-08-19 09:08:04
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mom_of_06hannie
Mom_of_06Hannie :
Alhamdulillah. Teruskan banyak ceramah dalam bahasa Melayu dan Inggeris. Sebab, ketani mau ramai paham apa tu Islam. Hal-hal berkenaan Islam dan kehidupan dalamnya. MashaAllah, bagus Ustaz ani berbahasa Inggeris. Ramai antara ketani masa ani kurang faham bahasa Melayu, terutama anak-anak zaman sekarang
2026-08-19 07:02:20
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sitik6874
Siti Khaty :
i enjoy ceramah nya....especially in english...beautiful. to listen....very clear. talk....in malay pun very gd. i must say ustaz ani very educated........keep up d gd job. ustaz...
2026-08-19 10:36:31
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kakpat7
Desserts.n.Me :
Nice explanation Ustaz. I think when u say it in English ank muda can relate more. Yr English is also very good. Keep it Ustaz
2026-08-22 22:43:44
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dah08133
Dah :
He is so expressive and his English is so clear and beautiful. The message is so clear.
2026-08-22 00:14:27
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googooboyy
Googooboyy :
Ibn Uthaymeen spoke of the 4 levels of patience upon a calamity. The highest level is to achieve Alhamdulillah for every calamity that hits you.
2026-08-21 00:20:49
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langking.nila
✈︎ لڠ کيڠ نيلا :
The accent and articulation. In cadences switching between languages and dialects. Pleasing heard.
2026-08-25 13:14:37
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mylifeares
Rafidah S :
all the feelings we feel are valid, that is a true feeling from Allah.. the difference is how we respond to the feeling... may Allah always guide us in every way we choose... 🤲
2026-08-22 00:20:40
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sicario9816
Ezwan :
sabar this is just dunia
2026-08-21 10:03:28
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ceq_sue
CeqSue Mini me :
suami baru meninggal.. saya pun tak pilih utk jadi kuat.. saya mohon Allah pelihara saya dlm apa jua keadaan... taknak sedih berpanjangan.
2026-08-22 01:51:21
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welcome_home73
💜🪻BungaEdelweissMoses🪻💜 :
Masyaallah, Subhanallah, t.kasih infonya, t.kasih mengingatkan....🤲🏼
2026-08-21 03:36:28
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mashita7976
Mashita :
iyaa....sabar itu adalah kita tetap merasa pelbagai emosi, kita tetap nangis, tetap ada rasa hampir give up.....tapi kita tetap hold on to our faith, tetap solat, tetap baca quran, zikir, doanya lebih kuat, pergantungan pada Allahnya lebih kukuh... اللهم إهدني!
2026-08-23 05:24:27
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fuyusdamit191
191iyat :
Ani lah sedang sy rasakan.... berusaha sabar...tapi akhir akhir ini,mau sholat fardhu susah sangat,ada SJ cobaannya....ya Allah tolong sy...aku tak mau lalai...tapi Ani selalu terjadi....ada sesiapa boleh tolong sy?, mcm mana,nak sholat pun payah,ada SJ gangguannya.....😭😭😭😭
2026-08-24 20:23:12
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sitik6874
Siti Khaty :
very clear talk. ceramah siok mendengar ...english is good so as in malay......easy to understand....
2026-08-19 07:24:37
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mhkskitchen
MhksKitchen :
Was having a rough days, weeks recently. I think I can relate to the friend when he says "can I choose not be strong?". Then saw this ceramah... MasyaAllah, Alhamdulilah. I feel as if this ceramah is meant for me. 😭😭😭
2026-08-20 00:08:23
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eryantidin
Ery Yanti Norudin :
syukur selalu, for both ujian & rezeki. dua2nya dr Allah swt, pasti ada hikmah di sebalik ujian & rezeki yg kitani dpt. Redho seikhlasnya dgn takdir.. Indeed, Allah is the best planner. Bila kita bersyukur, Allah tambah nikmatNya. insha Allah.
2026-08-19 08:01:12
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iwanangell
iwanangell :
The exact words that i keep hearing if i ask "can i be not strong" to people around me. And i have never got an answer until today :,) its hard to be strong, its scary to be strong, because i have no choice but to be. It become a survival choice. But, im always hoping to Allah even its tiniest hope. And He is the one who makes me going on until today
2026-08-20 21:15:31
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suaidahsuhaimii
ꕥ سعيدة ꕥ :
Can i choose to not be strong — his question 🥹🔥
2026-09-03 18:16:21
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sitik6874
Siti Khaty :
ustaz. lawa baju ustaz. ah..warna nya ..sweet..
2026-08-24 13:04:40
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roslina.shoed
Roslina Shoed :
I am in this state right now. And Allah sent me this video
2026-09-06 23:50:08
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m_nacollections
M.NaCollections :
whatever happens, never turn your back to Allah.
2026-08-22 16:55:36
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