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anamsali0 :

Sana? I will say ncoma! Tell your friend you like her top, you love her relationship with her mother, you wish you had a sister like her. Yithethe! ALWAYS! Ingxaki iqala when uthula! It builds resentment. NCOMAAA!

Tema Seyama🌸 :

The only emotions you can regulate is the ones you allow yourself to feel ❤️

Enhle :

I never suppress or ignore it, I always investigate ☺️❤️

boy moms are disgusting :

There’s envy, then there’s jealousy.

Y O N E L A :

I learned about envy the hard way. In my 20’s I dated this well off guy and he spoiled me with gifts and trips, after we broke up my cousin slid into his dm😏

sithandiwe.zuma :

PRAY ABOUT IT.🫶🏾🔥👏🏾

Vee28🇿🇦 :

I used to have a friend that I was envious of and I broke off that friendship because there's nothing that scares me like doing people bad or becoming a bad person because I couldn't control my emotions! I'm even scared to keep friends because I don't trust myself!

Nands :

Envy is a dangerous one. Once I see anyone close to me with the slightest hint of it. I cut off because if someone is not self aware it can control them in a dark way .

Virago :

It’s crazy how those who don’t control their envy end up being so blind to how we can actually see that they wanting us lives and think they are more deserving of what we have than us

lutho_m 🪽 :

Endibhidayo are people who have more than you and are more successful than you but are still envious. You take one step forward and they foam at the mouth, even though they are miles ahead of you, caba umntu makahlale epha phantsi kwakho 😭

S :

envy is an innate human emotion, however it is important how you go about. People tend not to dissect well.

Eye :

Exactly- plus it brings other things like jealousy and greediness.

user90344993119 :

I always do research on why I feel that way because it will reveal why I feel that way.

Thina Nonga Tembani :

It’s the genesis of witchcraft. It starts in the mind.

Phetsile Nkhosi ( dlamini) :

Exactly envy, jealousy etc those are normal human emotions. They reveal what you lack, even anger it is not wrong to be angry but it's wrong to act on it.

Simah_N🍒 :

It’s really a Normal emotion just understand WHY your feeling that emotion to avoid it controlling you

Manala_Omhle :

So true!! It is normal, the danger is when you do not control it!! Uyithandazele!!!

Ncumisa Majezi :

They do this.Umntu azenze wena and when they cannot be you,aku khangelele i hate from others.Aku fune ufile just because ufuna ukuba nguwe.Imlawule umntu angabi nazo nee ntloni.

Zamadonga :

Another thing that helps is to openly talk about your envy instead of supressing it. Sit with it, confront it, talk about it with your friends, your siblings etc, but especially talk about it with God.

zeesobantu :

I've buhlungu worse when it's amongst siblings 😔 Andina Tata because of that 💔💔💔

dontdoit233 :

Yeah. If umntu umcingela njalo it’s better to block them ngoba you’ll find yourself commenting and leaving nasty comments ngenxa ye envy and jealousy 😂

Ivankosi52 :

This!❤️

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wealthkay_47 :

Beeeeen saying, and it’s in the simplest things. Not complimenting friends, not congratulating friends etc etc.