Honestly, being the bigger person nearly killed me. 3 years later and I'm still reeling. Probably because I spent so long not speaking about it
2026-08-19 12:55:20
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Max |Overall Oaf| AuDHD 🇨🇦💄 :
By speaking up, you fight back. Abusers try to control what you say and who you talk to BECAUSE they don't want you to talk about it
2026-08-19 18:01:34
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OrganizeBelize :
Yes, exactly! This is why I oppose gag orders put on victims in protection orders in family courts. The judge in my case tried to tell me I can't share my story because it's "attacking". Incorrect - sorry no Judge. My telling my story is taking my power back from someone who violently riped it away from me. It also helped me find the support I needed to be able to endure the ongoing Post-Separation Abuse. I point blank told the judge he doesn't get to silence me to protect my abuser. And so I made this tiktok account to share my story and how I am reflecting on recovery from abuse.
2026-08-19 15:42:33
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The Glitter Fairy 🏳️🌈🍉🇺🇦 :
Oh I called all his friends and family and told them 👀 I was not about to have him paint a narrative that we just “didn’t work out.” I wanted them to know the years of lying and cheating he put me through. 🤷🏻♀️
2026-08-19 18:25:44
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mirai.origin :
I wrote my peace by telling others about what I endured and documenting the timeline and what I endured. And somehow, my ex accuses me of “turning others against her and that my document is all lies and moral grandstanding”. Absolutely boggling that the offender gets offended when the truth come outs and their need to silence the actual victim.
2026-08-31 06:03:23
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sp0okyb1tch :
I was the bigger person the whole relationship, while he tried to shrink me i had to pretend he was perfect. I will not be silent anymore
2026-08-19 23:58:54
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FrenchFry9840 :
Literally yes 💯 in recent months I have just simply started calling out my child's father for when he tries to make me feel crazy. "hey, I brought this concern to you and you didnt acknowledge it at all, then told me how my reactions are why your crazy? how does that make sense?" ive even started recoeding conversations and he hates it, cuz it confirms everyone's suspicions. they simllt refuse to acknowledge that they were wrong. that shame? is scarier than hurting us women 💯 let that sink in 😭
2026-09-08 07:54:13
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Rache - 📚🎗️💙 :
My soon to be ex husband slept with the married neighbor and they now live in my old house. Her husband still lives across the street.... They have 3 kids. My ex has 2 kids from a previous marriage and we have a son. So 6 kids are involved..........
2026-08-19 17:27:56
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Logically_Petty :
I was told to think of our kid. That I was gone, why get a PFA or report it to the police? (Da refused to press charges)
2026-09-11 00:55:39
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J_does_production :
I was losing my mind with my ex and the dude she decided was gonna be her monkey branch fucked with me mentally and the "well maybe the disrespect of a non answer is your answer" from people who were in the know of what my ex wife was doing was the god damn worst 🤮
2026-09-10 08:27:43
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Shawn Hammond :
I DO want revenge.
2026-09-02 00:23:15
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ChantellBlayne✨ :
I hope you know how much you mean to me. Your videos, your vulnerability, your bravery, has helped me in ways I can’t explain but I know you’ll understand. Thank you. I see you. I’m SO FUCKING PROUD OF YOU!!And I’m so happy to watch you grow and to grow along side you.🫂💕
2026-08-20 23:25:53
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Ari 🐳 (they/them) :
“my family’s home was lost in a fire” “THE BIGGER PERSON WOULD FORGIVE THE FIRE!” 😅
2026-08-25 17:29:37
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Scout 🐞 :
Being the bigger person means not robbing someone of consequences. Being the bigger person means telling your truth
2026-08-23 20:21:28
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Sarah :
We speak up now.
2026-08-20 07:34:24
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Krista Peters :
be the bigger person is just another form of victimization. please let victims speak, some people actually need to stfu listen and learn
2026-08-19 15:12:02
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irunmorethanmymouth :
He said “I’ll be the bad guy” you are! You cheated and lied to me our entire relationship!!!
2026-08-31 03:36:02
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DJSunflowerGirl :
💜💜💜
2026-08-21 03:21:50
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