@iamcoffy_zar: Don’t use bad language with me Man😩

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brokeauntie
♥️Nana♥️ :
as for DA T-shirt 😂😂😂
2026-08-19 12:53:41
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bongane_maphanga818
bonganemaphanga81 :
"there was a frustrated white man" 😭😭😭
2026-08-19 15:01:36
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bramikepilatono13
PILATO MIKE MZWANDILE Legend :
Saps tracksuit
2026-08-19 20:46:26
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keitumetse_80
Ofentse Mogotsi :
“ Don’t Ah also” 😫😭
2026-08-19 12:56:43
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badula24
Badula@24 :
🤣he apologised more than he complained 🤣🤣🤣
2026-08-19 13:44:40
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don_governor
Governor The Don :
Bro can I please see the original 🤣😂🤣
2026-08-19 13:04:45
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.....so_then
Dear Mama 🌍 :
🤣🤣🤣🤣 What just happened at the end 🤣🤣🤣
2026-08-19 13:28:25
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Angel Mthembu638 :
Vusi Twala come get you flowers
2026-08-19 17:11:29
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where's the original 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭
2026-08-19 12:58:54
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tumelontshingila2
tumelontshingila2 :
you nailed it mfethu 🙏🤣🤣
2026-08-19 20:18:36
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kekemosiki_lee
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I actually want to know why asa kgone ho mo founela during the day???
2026-08-19 19:27:43
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_rrdd21
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🤣You are so funny.
2026-08-19 15:33:44
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There’s a difference between having to report your every move because your partner demands it and naturally keeping the person you love informed because you care about their peace. If I’m going somewhere, why wouldn’t I tell you where I’m headed? If my plans change, why wouldn’t I let you know? If someone blatantly tries flirting with me, I’d rather you hear about it from me than somehow find out later and wonder why I kept it from you. And if I tell you I’ll be home around midnight but realize it’s going to be much later, sending a ten-second text isn’t losing my freedom. It’s consideration. Of course, healthy relationships still need independence and trust. Nobody should need permission to see their friends, provide evidence of where they are every hour, or live under constant surveillance just to keep their partner calm. That’s control, not communication. But sometimes people become so afraid of seeming “controlling” that they act like expecting basic transparency from a serious partner is unreasonable. I don’t want to control your life. I want us to naturally include each other in our lives. I want you to go have fun with your friends and enjoy yourself without me, while still remembering that there’s someone at home who loves you and deserves to be respected in rooms they’re not standing in. The healthiest version isn’t “Tell me everything because I don’t trust you.” It’s “I trust you, and because we respect each other, neither of us intentionally leaves the other in the dark.”
There’s a difference between having to report your every move because your partner demands it and naturally keeping the person you love informed because you care about their peace. If I’m going somewhere, why wouldn’t I tell you where I’m headed? If my plans change, why wouldn’t I let you know? If someone blatantly tries flirting with me, I’d rather you hear about it from me than somehow find out later and wonder why I kept it from you. And if I tell you I’ll be home around midnight but realize it’s going to be much later, sending a ten-second text isn’t losing my freedom. It’s consideration. Of course, healthy relationships still need independence and trust. Nobody should need permission to see their friends, provide evidence of where they are every hour, or live under constant surveillance just to keep their partner calm. That’s control, not communication. But sometimes people become so afraid of seeming “controlling” that they act like expecting basic transparency from a serious partner is unreasonable. I don’t want to control your life. I want us to naturally include each other in our lives. I want you to go have fun with your friends and enjoy yourself without me, while still remembering that there’s someone at home who loves you and deserves to be respected in rooms they’re not standing in. The healthiest version isn’t “Tell me everything because I don’t trust you.” It’s “I trust you, and because we respect each other, neither of us intentionally leaves the other in the dark.”

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