Andee C.
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Wednesday 19 August 2026 14:00:19 GMT
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💛 :
I was about to open the comments to say “bitch how tf can you be triggered by spicy foods?” and then I learned I am privileged, I’m so so so so sorry honey 💛 that should have happened to you and it should never crossed my mind, you’re doing amazing to be facing your fear foods
2026-08-21 20:29:16
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shanikahaustin_dejong :
I never eat spicy food because of one night. I stayed at a friends house and we had a very spicy dinner. During the night the mother’s boyfriend woke me up and toke me to his room. After everything he gave me some more leftovers and watched me eat it all. When he fell asleep I ran home complete naked. I was 7.
2026-08-22 02:32:18
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{._V_.} :
Same here, i was rubbed with chili when i was a kid whenever i lied. Unlike you, i started taking more chilis to overcome the spiciness so it no longer fazed me.
2026-08-20 05:08:40
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Pebbleicetea :
My dad would grab a napkin and soak it into the pickled jalapeno jar, like the nacho ones. And chuck it at my face. I was always going to school with swollen eyes.
2026-08-20 23:10:21
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Sarah Haruno :
A trauma is still a trauma. Its valid.
2026-08-19 21:58:01
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Lala143SKZOKI :
I cook everyday for my family, there’s 3 serving utensils that I avoid cuz I’ve gotten beat by them so many times
2026-08-21 12:02:51
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littlemoonssssun :
THIS. And as a social worker, it IRKS me to the core when some people say “I turned out okay” after experiencing punishments like this or one that is … just inappropriate. These kind of punishments are NOT okay.
2026-08-22 03:04:30
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Alex :
adults find so many unique ways to hurt children. i just don't understand it 😭
2026-08-22 23:44:31
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Gee Ang :
🥺 Good for you! But don’t force yourself pls… sometimes knowing your limit is also being kind to yourself.
2026-08-20 01:46:24
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Brenda :
Im so fcking sorry😭😭
2026-08-28 00:10:13
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Sunshine :
I hope you and every one here HEALS 💜
2026-08-28 02:07:58
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indigirl :
People think it's "not that deep" but this is how my care team think I got ARFID from my parents using food as punishment. I'm deficient in most vitamins and minerals even with supplements and im almost 30 now. It actually IS that deep.
2026-08-22 08:28:20
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walijah :
i was once given a heapful of crushed red chillies and no water when i was 2-3 cause i was eating mud, i am still a firm believer that's the reason my digestive track is messed up today
2026-08-21 05:57:47
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Lindsay Rose :
I’m so sorry my best friend’s mom used to do this to her. It’s extremely cruel.
2026-08-27 19:38:05
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Thewanderingway :
That is so vile, I cannot imagine doing that to someone 😔
2026-08-21 02:29:51
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stripper.money :
food is so integral to a person’s culture and community. I’m so sorry they’ve taken away that part of your culture from you. I’m glad you’re trying to get it back bc you deserve to enjoy it! ❤️
2026-08-22 12:48:32
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Sonrisa :
When I was ten I cut off all my hair so my mother could no longer drag me around or throw me by it. Growing it out as an adult felt weird at first.
2026-08-22 06:07:46
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Savannah -Hot Mess Homestead- :
Ignore the people in the comments. "Trauma isn't the event that happens to you, it's your brains response to the event". Your feelings are valid 🫶🏻.
2026-08-23 04:26:51
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ghostfacelovesme :
that spicy tingle in ur mouth is a gentle reminder that you’re alive and healthy. All that trauma will never define you and who you are today. grateful ur here :)
2026-08-23 00:30:26
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jessbandmisosoup :
Gosh this world is exhausting
2026-08-22 17:29:11
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༺274༻ :
My grandparents did the same. But with soap. I pretended to like it, would get excited when they would threaten me with it. Then it went from soap to chilli. And i did the same thing.. and they gave up😭😂
2026-08-24 02:24:48
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peaches :
I was rubbed in the mouth with chili whenever I did something stupid as a child. I never thought that could be a trauma response :( I love spicy food with all my heart, though… could that be a trauma response too? I’m trying to make sense of it because it feels so ironic.
2026-08-21 07:34:02
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light • margins & matters :
thanks for sharing this. ethnic foods from my nativity are so so spicy and i can’t eat them and my mother used it for punishment. people always joke around “you’re from xxx, why can’t you eat spicy food?” and i don’t mind the jokes, i got desensitized by it. but seeing your post reminds me of how shame doesn’t really work to reclaim our lives, courage does. ❤️
2026-08-22 05:38:55
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aurora :
the guys at my firehouse have always made fun of me for not being able to handle spice but it wasn’t that i couldn’t, it’s that i can very well because i grew up with it being used the same way, not even just my mouth, it’s rubbed in open cuts and wounds too. only recently was able to open up to them and watching them get so emotional truly broke my heart. we’re family here, they’re my brothers, we joke around and mess with eachother nonstop, there’s no way they could know if i didn’t tell them! they’re now helping me little by little, i now can enjoy meals with them more and share our different cultures and i’m so glad at 24, i decided to finally do something about this trauma, that seems so small and silly, but has held me back more than i even thought! you’re not alone friend🫶🏻🩷
2026-08-22 20:01:55
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