I hear this but this doesn’t work for practising Christian couples that want to abstain😅
2026-08-19 15:22:04
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N :
You don’t know people until you travel or live with them.
2026-08-19 16:29:10
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Fatima Flatt | Raising Queens :
I agree. But whether you live together before getting married or not, people can change in the blink of an eye. The person you know today may not be the same person you know tomorrow and relationships can change for so many different reasons.
One of the biggest changes can be having children. Kids can completely change a relationship and can change people too. Mothers go through so many physical and hormonal changes, while also making huge sacrifices and often putting themselves last. Sometimes that can lead to exhaustion, frustration or even resentment towards their partner. Dads can also experience pressure, especially from the financial responsibility and the feeling of having to provide for their family.
All of these things can put a huge strain on a relationship and sometimes change someone in ways you never expected.
So, I guess what I’m trying to say is pray for your relationship to survive every stage of life. Communicate with your partner, do mental checks in. Pray that as life changes, you both continue to grow together rather than grow apart and that the person you fell in love with doesn’t change for the worse.
2026-08-19 15:56:33
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Tembo :
I was literally saying this to my girl the other day 😭
2026-08-28 09:27:15
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Morayo A☀️|✝️ :
it’s a hard one bc as Christian’s - living with someone before marriage does not directly corroborate the word of God. It (almost always) opens the door to fornication and defiling the marital bed before the couple is officially recognised as man and wife, so what really is the point?
2026-08-19 15:05:54
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kingjayXV :
Statistics have often shown an association between premarital cohabitation and higher divorce rates, although that doesn’t prove cohabitation itself causes divorce. Personally, I would rather wait until marriage because I believe marriage should be the commitment that comes before building a shared household
2026-08-19 15:27:06
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eniolao20 :
Living with someone is your personal bias. You don’t need to live with someone to see what’s going to be problematic. You have to be observant and have discernment
2026-08-22 23:50:29
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DEBS | Hair & Yap 👸🏾🇬🇭 :
I agree 100% I could never make a life long commitment to someone before living together
2026-08-28 20:42:28
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can we get a detailed tutorial for this look plss
2026-08-24 02:09:09
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Dr. Nifemi 💋 :
Sorry it’s just practical. It’s common sense 🧍🏾♀️
2026-08-20 01:21:13
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Sola’s Woven Days :
Unfortunately I agree. I was originally against cohabiting too. But until you do it, you finally realise how different your relationship can be, and that’s often the shock people feel the first few years in their marriage. Religion can’t consistently be used as an excuse here when at this decision can mean life or no life. ESPECIALLY as a woman.
2026-08-20 07:18:29
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Mercedes Benson :
Facts! We’ve been living together for 18 months - best thing ever
2026-08-22 19:22:28
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Fis - Finance Matters UK :
I’m hearing everything but sista you look fabulous 😍
2026-08-21 07:26:32
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BA :
As a Christian sorry I don’t agree it creates room for temptation but your makeup is gorgeous as always
2026-08-21 09:00:24
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it's.roslyn :
Completely agree with everything you're saying but my oh my this makeup look is fantastic 😍
2026-08-21 06:40:53
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jeannambassa :
What’s the eye shadow so pretty ❤️
2026-08-19 15:30:40
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Kosana Bangz :
Even if it just for a week or two to see how everything goes and understand them well because baby it crazy
2026-08-19 19:55:36
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SheisCoCo -Afrocentric designs :
I agree. It’s good for women because the bubble of marriage will be burst and women will see the real before they buy.
2026-08-19 16:29:25
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steph :
It’s a hard one as a Christian but I definitely agree with this sorry😭 living with my now husband during the engagement period made me even more certain about the commitment of marriage. To find out you don’t thoroughly enjoy living with someone after committing to till death do us part is very risky distins!
2026-08-20 08:41:07
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Whitney Madueke :
Is this your back or front camera pls? Love the look!
2026-08-19 15:57:32
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Ronny. :
I agree!
2026-08-19 15:43:03
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anniiemay :
Idk about moving in, I can spend couple of weeks, but back to mine 😅
2026-08-19 17:24:09
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Judy M (o'toole) :
My mind is changing to understand this perspective because
2026-08-19 19:08:30
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