depth is not the problematic factor. sometimes what someone declares as depth is someone’s natural state and anything besides that forces the person to leave their natural state to meet others where they are. surface level relationships would require them to be someone they’re not. and people who lack depth expect them to meet them where they are instead of accepting that they don’t have the capacity to meet that person in their natural state. it’s okay to realize you are no longer compatible with someone you were once close with.
2026-08-19 19:44:11
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0.lani :
I don’t want to keep surface level relationships because people ,regardless of depth ,require maintenance. I don’t want to water a dandelion.
2026-08-21 03:10:59
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aspensdigitaldiary :
Hey so I’m a Scorpio moon
2026-08-21 04:11:23
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glitterangell :
I don’t value surface level shit anymore.
2026-08-20 02:18:47
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nina :
yes but surface level is just performance, avoidance masking vulnerability. i’m good
2026-08-20 10:57:25
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555 :
i hate that this might be right
2026-08-19 17:39:42
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Sooo, basically me specifically having a lottttt of friendship breakups may be due to the fact that I want everyone around me to think/feel as deeply as me? Basically be a sort of copy paste of me? And I basically just need to accept that everyone is their own person and that I for 90 % missed out on good friendships where I could laugh, be childish etc all day? So for 50% it's my fault? I could've had tons of friends?.....someone help me answer, because I get my perspective, but maybe this perspective may be the answer I've been looking for for a longggggggggggggg time?
2026-08-20 20:50:15
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anya ʕ•͈͡•ʔ :
just bc u don’t have a deep conversation whenever you hangout with certain ppl doesn’t mean they still aren’t a close and meaningful connection. Some of my closest friends are those that I can laugh my butt off with and never talk about anything serious, yet when we do want to share or be vulnerable that space is always opened up and cultivated. Be friends with people you don’t have to try around. A lot of great friendships start off with lots of laughs and stupid small talk.
2026-08-20 04:06:58
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PurrfectlyStable :
I’m too deep to even think about not being deep
2026-08-20 05:07:55
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user793654808 :
i literally don't know how to do casual
2026-08-21 03:29:09
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rebeccatorie | UGC :
Umm respectfully I disagree. You can only get to know someone as deep as they know themselves. Without human connection we got nothing
2026-08-21 00:48:29
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TubularFella🍡 :
a meaningful relationship is idealistic in today's world
2026-08-20 04:09:57
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tilly ⚔️ :
if every conversation deep, then it removes the magic and the satisfaction of having deep conversations
2026-08-20 15:19:05
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peperoni :
I value my time and thats why im serious to every conversation
2026-08-20 15:53:16
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i hate anything superficial
2026-08-20 00:51:24
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<3 :
How can a relationship be surface level
2026-08-20 01:45:27
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sniped :
but if you truly connect and care about someone and are vocal about your care for them, wouldnt you crave to know them on a deeper level? especially if they are showing that kind of interest. how can you be close to someone without knowing their past, their true feelings on certain concepts or why they think the way they do at all. how can you form a genuine relationship if you dont know where you two align on subjects that matter to you guys personally?? how would it be any different than making small talk to a stranger on a superficial basis???
2026-08-20 10:34:37
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destiny_898 :
I'll let ppl be but I won't settle for less
2026-08-19 21:38:13
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💤 :
I find meaning in every relationship. Relationships need to be deep they need to have meaning. Friendships or anything else is different. But relationships? That’s something special for me. Dating is more than just a surface level thing, it’s to understand a person, to be there for them like nobody else has. And to connect from the core to the stars.
2026-08-19 17:02:50
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🆖🅰️ :
lol why would I walk around making surface bot connections? I might as well make friends with the NPCs on GTA
2026-08-20 10:23:02
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🕸️yacinth 🕸️ :
i’ve been having to come to terms with this. not everyone is going to be a deep connection and not every conversation needs to have some deep insightful meaning, it can just be for example, a conversation about a movie and how we enjoyed it and nothing more and people can be enjoyed as they are, sometimes that’s as strangers, or friends who don’t speak often. i’m starting to see there’s beauty in surface level things too, maybe life is just as much about the things on the surface as it is about the ones hidden below
2026-08-19 22:55:02
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angie🖤 :
clocked my shiiiiij
2026-08-19 21:03:10
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