@guidedbygabby: “They need to stop!” Yes. And as uncomfortable as it is to work through their yelling, they need your help to be guided to stopping it. The minute you feel panic, remind yourself that you are in control of yourself and you need to help them learn to control the yelling. Give them the tools. One way to try is putting your hands over your ears and asking them to match your voice. “I can’t understand when you yell.” If they still don’t stop, stand up and continue covering your ears while being right there with a neutral face. Maybe even closing your eyes could help you because you’re not seeing their angry reaction and it won’t continue to put you in a state where you’re unable to help. Repeat after a few moments, “I want to help. Can you lower your voice?” When it happens, get back to their level, if you have stood up, and say thank you. I can understand better now.” And ask what is happening. “Will this work with every kid?” Probably not. There are many other ways to help with screaming. The point I also wanted to make here, is that when you are not present in your body during these moments, that feeling of anger or “out of control-ness” can take over and lead the rest of this situation. When you can realize in the moment, how tense you get, or how panicked you feel, you’re able to remind yourself that you see it and you can still work through it wow keeping yourself grounded. If any therapists or behavioral analysists wanna chime in with other tips and tricks, please feel free! #childrenoftiktok #authoritativeparenting #parentinghacks #parentinglife

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