“Do not go miles for someone who won’t cross a street for you”
2026-08-20 15:12:32
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londikamageba :
Problem started when u skipped overtime , 🥺 oh sana the things we did for love
2026-08-20 13:54:01
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Thabi :
This is so off topic, but you look so put together 🥺❤️”how to look put together” video?
2026-08-20 15:25:08
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Tsholo :
Yoh ha a! If I speak 😭😤
2026-08-20 06:20:34
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@Will's :
Basically don’t disrupt you own system to host someone else
2026-08-20 15:15:59
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Xola :
Men prioritise themselves all the time sana. 😭😭
2026-08-20 09:01:59
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Silentio_Knight :
I think you shouldn't go above and beyond for someone who can't go above and beyond for you.. Youll be okay.
2026-08-19 17:13:29
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thabangsoundsgood :
Mjolo sounds stressful. Le beng safe guys 👍
2026-08-20 11:39:46
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mamsipha :
Ever dated a man who loves soccer with his whole life 😭😭
2026-08-20 12:02:17
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Ms Joe🥂 :
Oh same i came to this realization, men never do that , if they busy they busy , no exceptions
2026-08-20 08:48:01
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Lebo obeL :
I agree.
I had to go out of the country and every call my boyfriend kept telling me that he misses me dearly. He gave me an impression that he's miserable without me and guess what I did. I rearranged my plans and came back earlier only for this man to come see me after a whole week because he was busy😂
2026-08-20 07:38:19
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Ndazo Mdunge :
In my 20s to early 30s i used to stop my life and rearrange for a relationship. At the end of our relationship he said something like (i never asked you to stop living). I wa so hurt & from that day onwards i don’t rearrange for anyone including friends & family. Im 41 now & u stick to my own plans. Thank you for sharing
2026-08-20 12:33:13
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Simphiwe :
I learned this the hard way too
2026-08-20 10:45:44
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Lisa :
I’d crash out 😭😭😭… I haven’t seen you the whole 2 weeks? You’re finally back and the first thing you do ufika Kwakho is “go to a braai???? With the same people you were with? “…. Yhooo ha.a 😭
2026-08-20 13:44:32
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🌸 :
That’s is A Cult ,That is idol worship 😂😂😂🤞& once you figure that out That is when you start living .Im not cancelling any plans or allowing him to interrupt my plans ngo last minute he knows I have a life Nkosi yami soficana phambili .
2026-08-20 09:02:03
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Khulekani Ozithandayo. :
I'm so happy you broke up with him😂😂😂😂😂😂it was all a lie, nobody can force you to attend braii when you had plans with your partner lies lies. He wanted to be there.
2026-08-19 17:02:12
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Neoentle_Zwane :
He’s lying. He wanted to be there
2026-08-20 03:35:47
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Jay Kevin :
Used to be that kinda guy, Lesson learned 🤞🏽
2026-08-19 17:27:49
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Asanda Ngubo :
I learnt this the hard way 🥹
2026-08-20 13:02:28
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Okuhle_✨ :
You’re absolutely right but it just feels like it’s drastic to treat all your next partners like that. How I see things as an outsider I stand to be corrected at that: 1. If you knew you wanted to do overtime I believe you could’ve told your partner so that he can make other arrangements ei get someone else to fetch him/ uber back home cause you have work and overtime is important to you. 2. He was wrong not to appreciate your efforts he could’ve told his friends your coming to fetch him. And yeah a good partner would’ve been more excited to spend time with you after a long trip like that. It was somewhat inconsiderate of him. I say this to say not every partner will be like him. You can still prioritize your partner but you can always take a step back when need be.
2026-08-20 02:32:02
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November 🤍🎀🫧 :
the SAME thing happened to me.I cried for a few minutes and decided this will never happen to me again...soo I drafted the text telling him exactly that he will neverrrrrr get that inch of time if that how they use it....when I tell you my life is at its best...he now exists in my world and my time not the other way round.😌😌
2026-08-20 11:57:22
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💫A PEARL💫 :
does this apply when you in a oing distance relationship? because I am in one and every chance we get I wanna spend as much time as we can hence it requires literally dropping everything whenever they are around. genuinely asking guy's
2026-08-20 05:49:29
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browneye_uche :
I had to learn this after breaking up with my ex, and had to reset my entire nervous system because it became hard for me to let the relationship go and I realised that I felt so lost like I didn't know what I was doing because she wasn't there
2026-08-20 09:45:08
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