@melrobbins: If someone you love is going through a hard time, you have to fight the instinct to want to jump in and fix it for them. They don't need you to solve their problems. They need you to support them as they figure it out. Hear more from my conversation with renowned scientists Dr. Heather Berlin and Dr. Christof Koch on the @Perception Box Podcast 🎧 "Stop Trying to Fix People: Mel Robbins on the Power of Letting Go"

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lovemarthag
Martha 🤍🩵 :
Me! 😭💯 but because I think it’s my job to help solve it, nothing else to it.
2026-08-20 02:27:34
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lenoreocookie
Lenore :
I. Can’t. Stop. 😩
2026-08-19 22:39:40
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kilsa2923
Klisa29 :
When you realize this as a parent, I thought I could fix it, just can’t, loosen the control which kills us every day, sleeping, getting up, go to work, come home and just want peace, can’t fix him, but we are the enemy
2026-08-20 02:01:52
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fivenotch
fivenotch :
AMEN! You just more clearly articulated. Why I today! Told my sister (70) in Serious crisis- that after 3 weeks. Of researching, on her behalf, Resources, Educational links, related to her situation, etc- that moving forward. I will. BACK OFF. And still. Root, be in emotional support, of her. The Timing of this post. Is. Crazy! Thanks, Mel!
2026-08-20 01:43:02
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mms4406
Just me :
The other thing is how about if it’s said it’s just your imagination and nothing wrong/bad is happening but as a mom you feel that wrong/bad things have happened so as a mom I react on my imaginations. It doesn’t make sense to me. So now I’m the bad person.
2026-08-20 02:14:05
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jen0635
Jen Gaffney-Mund🖤💫 :
Needed this ❤️
2026-08-20 01:39:59
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rachinsb1
Rach :
So true!!!!!!!
2026-08-20 01:58:55
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lana_great_lakes
Svetlana Ruggeri ♡ :
My 2022-2026 lesson finale... stop solving everybody else's problems.
2026-08-19 23:55:49
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marsha18221
Marsha D :
TRUTH 💯
2026-08-20 00:35:27
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deavo_75
DEAVO_75 :
Finally figured out that I cannot fix people's lives anymore especially if what they are going through is something they created or allowed. I listen if they need to vent but don't offer more than that. I protect my peace above everything else.
2026-08-19 21:33:57
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kachanonlinefitnesscoach
ANDREW ONLINE FITNESS COACH :
Such an important question when you’re about to jump in and fix something: “Does this person actually need my help - or am I trying to relieve MY discomfort from watching them struggle?”
2026-08-19 22:20:02
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aurehzu.ashley
Aurehzu Ashley :
“People will not change on your timeline.” 💯 👏🏽
2026-08-19 20:08:41
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coachondemand
The Reverse Blueprint :
The idea that you “control” other people is an illusion!!
2026-08-20 00:34:38
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mercyinspire2
Mercy Elogho❤️ :
When someone shares their burden with you, respond with emotional intelligence.
2026-08-19 23:22:07
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e45ty
Easty :
In the immortal words of… you: Let Them ❤️
2026-08-19 20:26:13
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jaclynegan5
Jaclyn E :
So hard
2026-08-20 00:37:29
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khanyom81
KhanyoM :
Oh wow so true🙌
2026-08-19 20:06:51
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mercyinspire2
Mercy Elogho❤️ :
You can sit with someone in their pain without trying to fix it.📌
2026-08-19 23:22:44
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mercyinspire2
Mercy Elogho❤️ :
Sometimes people are not looking for solutions. They just want to feel heard and understand.
2026-08-19 23:23:27
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hulk.the.great
HULK THE GREAT :
true
2026-08-19 20:17:30
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donna.c77
donnac363 :
ver6 true. but th8s doesnt work
2026-08-19 22:06:18
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mikumalvinas
miku :
j solved people problems then now i lost everything & they are not come for rescue i hesitate
2026-08-19 20:10:13
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1child._of_god
1Child _of_God :
Amen
2026-08-20 01:49:41
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sjphotographywisconsin
SJ photography | Wisconsin :
I needed to hear this in the worst way tonight… in Mel robins we trust 🫶🫶
2026-08-20 02:42:51
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