@coachmontessori: There is absolutely nothing wrong with children wanting things. 🤍 We all see things we like and wish we could have. The lesson isn’t “You shouldn’t want that.” The lesson is: “You can’t have it right now.” And not right now gives us an opportunity to teach something much more valuable. Maybe we take a picture and add it to their wish list. Maybe they save their own money for it. Maybe they ask for it for their birthday or another special occasion. Maybe we find a way to make something similar at home. Or maybe, after waiting for a while, they realise they don’t want it anymore. The goal isn’t to find a way for children to get everything they ask for. It’s to teach them that not everything has to be immediate. You can want something, wait for it, save for it, make a plan and decide later whether you still want it. Wanting something is okay. Having to have it right now is different. 🤍

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nickarminio
Nick Arminio :
My parent’s dog died. Is there a way in Montessori to best communicate this to my daughter for her to understand and cope with death?! She is 3
2026-08-19 23:54:36
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d.albano
Danielle :
So we lie!
2026-08-19 20:50:46
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cloudyfairyfloss
cloudy :
I don't have kids but I started doing it for myself and it honestly helps
2026-08-21 21:23:32
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romandercoven77
Romandercoven77🧙‍♀️🌜 :
I’m grandma. We go to register and buy it plus whatever else they want…
2026-08-21 13:57:05
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nickylightfamily
nickylightfamily :
My favorite hack before I even knew who montessori was
2026-08-20 18:34:33
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misebub
Bucka :
How long is the list 😂
2026-08-20 16:15:23
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it.girlbh
user9177075544142 :
Brilliant. You are so young. Yet alll of your advice is spot on. I'm a mom of grown kids. And a preschool director of 34 years. Your content is incredible.
2026-08-19 17:01:50
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amylouise38
Amy|MotherhoodJourney🤱💖 :
What do you say to a toddler who let the baby sleep and jumps on his head ?
2026-08-21 21:20:38
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lattesandloans
lattesandloans💌 :
I used to do this as a nanny and it works! I would later send them to their mom
2026-08-19 22:18:09
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ava_greene
ava :
Why can’t they hear “no”? This method teaches them that they’ll eventually get everything and anything they ask for.
2026-08-22 18:45:20
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glittersunshin3
glittersunshin3 :
Is this how American husbands are trained as well?
2026-08-20 15:26:50
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anitapistri
a n i t a :
sos argentina?
2026-08-19 20:35:15
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pink_clouds___
M 💕 :
I do this all the time! I didn’t know it was the Montessori way 🥰 my son is 4 and has NEVER once thrown a tantrum for not getting something in a store. It works!
2026-08-20 01:00:54
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mamaipsycholog
mamaipsycholog :
There is an extra advantage of this method. It helps child to realise how quickly his wishes change. Helpful to start a conversation about difference beetwin wish and need and also that we really don’t have to owe everything.
2026-08-19 22:09:23
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fluffyxbunnyzz
Bunny | Баниь :
Guys they will probably forget about the panda within 2 weeks it’s fine way to deal with the issue
2026-08-22 20:13:12
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paulaalthoff1
Paula :
One thing I do Right 😅
2026-08-19 17:00:09
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kraftsbykathie
CreatewithKat :
I like that you also dont say we can’t afford it 👏👏
2026-08-19 18:15:11
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morion_ita
No Rules :
si certo, nell'arco di mezz'ora abbiamo 25 selfie con tutto il negozio....
2026-08-19 17:29:08
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drinkingsunlight
DrinkingSunlight :
The picture thing works too 🙌🏻
2026-08-19 18:56:20
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tugainch
TugaInCH :
love your content 🙌🫶
2026-08-24 16:08:07
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birthbabyandyou
Becky -Bump, Birth & Baby Care :
I have to do this to myself a shocking amount
2026-08-21 12:23:07
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mikey8312
user8818960756885 :
Good methodology!!!!!! Sooo good! Then follow through is equally important to add
2026-08-21 03:09:13
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nickmanji
nickmanji :
true
2026-08-20 15:42:23
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samwam27
SamanthaWilk80082 :
Mines currently still letting me add things to their Santa letter all year round hahaha I have an entire folder of pictures for Santa 😂
2026-08-20 12:45:57
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tatalilolio
T23202024 :
Where is this store?
2026-08-19 19:10:03
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