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Wednesday 19 August 2026 16:55:09 GMT
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Karla_jayy :
My birthday this year was spent eating dinner by myself and shopping for myself 😌
2026-08-19 18:54:53
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Shay👑 :
It be space fillers and wanting free gifts
2026-08-19 20:26:35
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JoyIrene💜 :
Don't invite me to the bridal shower if I'm not invited to the wedding.
2026-08-19 20:47:39
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goddessveev :
You’d think this is common sense
2026-08-20 11:52:36
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01Sofisphere01 :
Oh yah learned that the hard way
2026-08-21 19:00:30
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to.di.for :
There were so many random old friends I wanted to invite to my baby shower but it felt so icky for the exact reason you said. Milestones aren’t the time to reconnect imo.
2026-08-19 20:19:14
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ThisDarnedThing :
💯 it feels like a gift grab.
2026-08-19 17:23:23
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gabrieshajacksonjohnson :
A friend I use to be close with in the past barely spoke to me in 2 years and invited me to her baby shower. I declined…. If I don’t talk to you on a regular basis, I don’t need to be invited to baby showers or weddings.
2026-08-20 12:18:14
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_yayababy_ :
This is how I feel but my husband is the opposite. Like what do you mean you’re inviting a “friend” from college to our baby shower who you talk to once a year.. and he actually shows up
2026-08-21 17:18:55
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enchantedcrafter :
why i can’t save the video ?!
2026-08-21 17:08:02
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Sicola256 :
Is this opinion really unpopular?
2026-08-20 14:01:42
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Andrea :
So true. I got invited to a destination wedding and then it clicked, we are not close enough for me to travel for that.
2026-08-19 20:23:17
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YouloveRoRo :
They are just acquaintances and people you know. Not friends
2026-08-19 20:24:52
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Lil 🎃 :
i mean the only beef we had just a business matter😳 doess it count 🤣🤣
2026-08-21 07:01:00
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dawn :
Eh I threw a house party once and over 100 people came - I asked my friends to bring their friends so everyone could mix and mingle, it was so great
2026-08-20 07:58:14
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TheMoonRaider :
It’s unpopular but you should say it, don’t invite people to your space that you don’t know
2026-08-21 09:59:55
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Georgie :
People just want to fill up the rooms 😂
2026-08-20 18:57:48
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Mommy and Me :
Invite them!! I moved to a state where I have no family or friends but I ended up getting married and having 2 babies. I sought out communities, attended all of the above and gave gifts and invited the same to mine. I didn’t have a village and knew how hard it can be to feel like you can’t enjoy these moments if you don’t have a large close circle. You don’t have to be best friends to be a village to others and you will find that many of those people will become a village for you as well. Invite them anyway and let them decide whether to accept or not.
2026-08-20 16:12:07
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Rayne 🖤 :
Omg this whole debate is too strict for me. We’re all going to die someday so just enjoy the people that are around and wanting to include you in things. Not everyone is out and about doing things with people sometimes it’s just go to work and come home. Sometimes these big milestones are the times they get to see the people they care about. And not everyone has a malicious intent of only inviting you for gifts and monetary reasons. But along side that most of the time those who are inviting the people already had to pay how much just so that you can come and kick up, eat, vibe and have a good time. We need to stop straying from building community
2026-08-20 17:34:36
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Pallavi J :
And I agree with you, but my parents wanted to invite every person in existence that I’ve ever met to my wedding 💀
2026-08-19 19:47:35
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yehcpyg :
and you can’t get mad if they tell you they not coming 😭😭
2026-08-19 19:36:37
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Teriannaaaaa :
I stop attending, especially because it was never reciprocated
2026-08-19 21:35:57
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Teenilovee :
I mean you can invite me but if you're not my friend the other 364 days of the year I'm not going 🤣🤣🤣 or buying shit from your registry. Congrats tho 🙃
2026-08-19 17:02:35
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Stephslovelylife :
Honestly, I would be so happy if someone wants to deepen our connection by inviting me to a milestone event, where I get to met their family and closer friends. And yes it would absolutely be worth a little gift. You do realise, that if you don’t want to go because the relationship is not important enough for you to spend money on it, you can just decline and tell them you allready have something planned on that day, right?
2026-08-21 04:59:19
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