@soulserenitywithrachel: Someone leaving isn’t the hardest part. It’s letting go of the hope that they’ll finally become who you needed them to be. #therapist #relationshiptips #coach #mindsetshift #detachment

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chels_ayyee
Chelsea :
I kept going back for years
2026-08-21 20:50:14
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minatasoglu
minatasoglu :
Ladies, I am from the future : it goes away with time, promise
2026-08-21 12:16:10
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kissacarissad
Kissacarissa :
Going through this now. It's killing me. He'll never change. I can't go back again. I have taken him back too many time with false promises. It hurts.
2026-08-19 21:44:18
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nadja.darwisch
nadja.dth :
My toxic mom ..
2026-08-21 12:11:25
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rosegarza32
Rose :
The sound alone is breaking me
2026-08-19 19:09:48
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brookeofthesea
Brooke :
The grief is so consuming
2026-08-19 19:49:49
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wonderwoman_3004
Leslie :
You’re grieving a person that’s still alive. It means you can be grieving the relationship, the version of the person you knew, the future you imagined, or the connection you wished you still had, even though that person is physically still here and honestly, that’s often what makes detachment so hard. There’s no funeral or definite ending. A part of you keeps thinking, Maybe they’ll come back. Maybe they’ll change. Maybe this time will be different. Detachment isn’t necessarily saying “I don’t love you anymore.”It can mean “I love you, but I’m no longer going to keep hurting myself waiting for you to become what I need.” That’s a very different kind of letting go. ❤️
2026-08-19 23:55:55
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santos_bruhh
Sa1nt :
She left me …. for something we could’ve worked on …. She said “you deserved someone better..” when in reality I don’t want anyone better I just simply want her…. She said “I don’t want you to carry my emotions and I also don’t wanna carry your emotions ..” ugggggh is been 2 months and 19 days and I still miss her like the very first day …..
2026-08-19 18:11:17
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littlepheonixgrace2.0
littlepheonixgrace2.0 :
I’m currently battling this and it’s killing me
2026-08-19 20:46:50
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ttabbycervantes
𖤓Tabs 𐚁⊹₊ ⋆ :
I remember crying like this to my therapist and let me tell you the healing I had felt afterwards .. it was almost like I needed that in order to move on. The amount of things I had kept quiet definitely caused that build up
2026-08-19 18:47:59
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thatprettygirlamy
Amy🥀 :
I need to see a therapist badly. As someone who’s tried to bury their self because of how bad I was treated and I finally chose myself a part of me wishes he could see the value in me and how much I just wanted it to be him.
2026-08-19 20:41:53
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user82018497
ooooooo :
leaving my narcissistic relationship with extensive verbal and emotional abuse has forever altered my brain chemistry. the trauma bond is real. I physically left shortly after i lost our baby and he told me he was going to bake a cake to celebrate their death, but mentally I still suffer and mourn a monster...its really the strangest thing. the flashbacks take my breath away sometimes
2026-08-20 03:11:29
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liz.loovee1995
liz.loovee1995 :
I’m on day 6 and I’m broken
2026-08-19 19:12:42
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lizzieliz23
Lizzie Liz :
I remember in my first therapy session, I cried the entire time. It was so hard to even speak, but he just sat with me and comforted me. ❤️‍🩹
2026-08-19 17:42:53
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thebrunetteswin
Diane :
My life rn 💔
2026-08-19 23:04:40
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tiff_ky
Tiff tiff :
I needed to see this wish I didn’t but glad I did
2026-08-19 19:55:07
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xbrittnicole
🌵🌻Brittany🌻🌵 :
I’m so tired of crying like this. And having my heart broken. I just wanted him to finally choose me, and show up for me.
2026-08-19 18:48:57
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tabithas_habitat
Tabithas_Habitat :
9 months and grief is all consuming at times
2026-08-19 18:35:53
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babyzion661
Lawrence☠️ :
can I get a therapist 😔 I need one 💔
2026-08-21 08:59:59
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ska1099
Ska :
Mine cried with me
2026-08-20 22:55:54
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theeambfountaine
theeambfountaine :
This was me!
2026-08-20 15:37:36
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