@jimmyonrelationships: Call out invalidation #datingadvice

Jessa Lynn 🦋 :

this happened to me last night! I spoke up for the first time! it felt good. I ended it tho, he didn't not respect my boundaries.

Emily | Abuse Education :

Yess and self abandonment gives them the green light to keep mistreating you, esp if they already distort everything you do

Amber :

The FIRST time! Bc if you wait until the 10th time, they’ll discredit you even more with something like “you’re having a bad day” or “when did you stop knowing how to take a joke” or (for women) “are you on your period” bc you’ve taught them you’ll tolerate their disrespect

Jasmine W :

How do i approach this with my guy who literally tells me Im always trying to fight. Also I now keep seeing people say being a stay at home mom is only hard if you hate your kids and as a 7 month postpartum mom that makes me feel like shit because I love both my kids. What do you think on this?

lisaanne255 :

they should show your videos in high school...the sooner people learn this, the better.

ANDREW :

I'm single

J Fuller :

what do you do if you have abandoned yourself for 21 years and think how are you going to stand up and start standing up when all the relationships that are intertwined with life changing effects

carolinecodding :

You are telling my daughters everything they need to know about how to value themselves. Thank you!

HealingJulz :

The right person for you won’t punish your vulnerability, they’ll encourage it!!!!

TheSuckiestManAlive :

Thank you.

JOSEPH ELHAJJ :

But don't you actually want to hear and know what THEY are thinking and feeling? So if they think you are saying something silly maybe it's silly?

joey Nichiporuk :

its true very very true

Squish :

Them with a mantra of “it’s not the end of the world”. The moment it was said back to them for an issue THEY raised - finally it clicked.

Johnathan ❌️ :

I wish I saw this video years ago!

shasm :

commenting just for more women to see this

Sebu :

Things I wish I knew 20y ago and the power to move on, rather than being afraid to be alone.

Amita :

What if they say you’re in charge but someone has been controlling my ability to live and communicate from my own devices and know what I have access to or which pieces of info are accurate? 🤯

SightSeeWithMe :

brilliant advice! I finally did it, and was dismissed as someone "anxious and controlling". But hey... I didn't waste YEARS this time🤷‍♀️

user184420 :

OOPSIES

Jesus :

I like your new hair style :)

Rachel L. :

Buttttt what if it’s your dad?

Kelly Bellis :

Sometimes you do have to be rude.

wij :

i say nothing but in my head im keeping score

Aga :

👍👍👍

BrookeTok :