What baffles me about this video is the idea that, “no matter what a mother-in-law does, you have no right to tell your partner that you’re unhappy about it.” That “no matter what” statement is absurd. There should be context to what actually transpired between the wife and her mother-in-law.
What kind of home are we building for our daughters if they aren’t allowed to voice their feelings? There will be times when our parents hurt or offend us, intentionally or unintentionally. Expressing how we feel about their words or actions that hurt us should not automatically be labelled as disrespect.
Respect should go both ways, and marriage should be a safe space where your partner can tell you when something has hurt them not a place where they are expected to suffer in silence simply because it involves your parent.
2026-08-22 06:51:28
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aa.eash. :
the whole reason his mom did that to her is because she knows her son will back her
2026-08-22 04:11:09
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Tabamma events ng :
Una dey talk sha
2026-08-21 13:40:38
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AleeyuQaya :
she has all the right oo, but she must be careful and strategic. wasu iyayen wallhi Yan wahala ne 😂😂
2026-08-20 02:43:07
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Apple User986323119 :
Madam being married doesn’t mean you lose your right to boundaries. It’s honestly ridiculous to expect someone to tolerate disrespect simply because it comes from their mom in law. Respect is a two way street, regardless of age, title, or family position.
2026-08-22 02:58:43
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Reemarh_Bakari :
Wallahi dole I’ll tell him Kafin nayi wa tsohuwa duka what do you mean they are certain things she shouldn’t do or talk to me my mum won’t speak to me that way either and my mum and I do talk when she offends me and she apologizes immediately
2026-08-21 08:27:52
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The keffi kidsfashion designer :
malama
su manya basa kuskure kenan?
she had the right to complain ooh
but in a respectful manner
2026-08-20 11:00:06
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Khadeejaaaaaa🍒💕 :
Assalamualaikum. Malama ina kwana, am not married amman, nidai banga wani abu mara kyau ah nan ba. If she wanted to be disrespectful she could’ve talked back to her! But taxo ta same shi ta fada masa sai kuma ah ce batayi halin tarbiya ba, and from the she’s saying it tana da hankalima, saboda she didn’t take action (she have every right to) she just told him, kuma ace da bata fada ba, idan ta fada kuma yazama wani jalalar daban!!!!! Malama gsky kije ki kara duba karatun akan rashin kunya da tarbiya, kuma wanna ba mgnr Gen Z bane ko kuma 21 century yauwa! Wanna gsky ne, and dan Allah ah dai cutan mata. Kuma dole muyi supporting gsky! Thank u ma.
2026-08-21 10:44:10
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Home Galleria & Adire Galore :
we are not with you on this
2026-08-22 00:19:59
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A L I Y U 🦍 :
So she should allow the disrespect to continue? Omor, nothing like ‘if it’s your mom’ my mom would never talk to someone’s daughter in a disrespectful manner. There’s nothing wrong in telling him.
2026-08-21 15:59:47
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husseinababagana :
dont take advices on social media o, what is good for the goose might not be good for the gander, do what works for u a toh. Allah ya bamu zaman lfy
2026-08-20 05:59:27
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🌸Eshaalmas💎 :
Your mother in law is not ur mom I mean ur in laws are not ur family, no this and no peace…
2026-08-20 10:07:36
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Quench_Mocktails_Abuja :
But she has every right to report to her husband, and of course I can tell my mom hajia jiya banji dadin yadda kikayimun magana ba, she’s my mother. And aure fah akace idan tafada masa ba lallai tafadi sabida yaje yasami mamanshi yaji dalili ba maybe tafadi ne out of concern. And you didn’t address the main issue na cewar tatafi gida fissabilliahi yanzu wannan dan abun da idan ma ba daidai bane zae iya gyara mata ai baiyi warranting yace tatafi gida bane fisabillah. In my opinion she has every right tafada masa badan Tana nufin wani abu ba. And yadda kika bada example to me it’s still the same with saying mama tayimin kaza. Allah yasa mudace.
2026-08-20 10:59:35
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Zaya :
I came to watch your video after seeing someone was ranting about this video she didn’t even finish watching the video honestly understand you wallahi i pity today’s young ladies
2026-08-21 08:36:02
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Modest Muse :
I am actually confused here
Because if it's my mum i would definitely speak to her about how i feel.But with his mum the situation depends on my relationship with her
But May Allah Guide us right
2026-08-20 09:18:38
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leemahgrl :
Opay da PalmPay zasu gudu fah
2026-08-21 15:49:26
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preciousdeprincess0 :
My sis my mother in law hit me with wood should I tell my husband or not🙏🏻
2026-08-20 12:16:35
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Mrs psyche❤️ :
Don mi toh? Kee duniya mukefa ba lahiraba kinjiya hajiya
2026-08-20 07:54:30
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Nomad :
I don't understand. Did she say it to the mother or to the husband? what are you on about? lol.
2026-08-20 07:21:27
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Thrift by mamazee :
She has all the wright but in a respectful way…
2026-08-21 10:31:12
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aneesa sadiq :
😭😭😭😭shiyesa nabarta da Allah wallahi tallahi bazan yafe mataba
2026-08-20 06:09:07
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Aqal🧠 or Qalb❤️🩹 :
Sis easy, just because she's mother doesn't mean he shouldn't act justly between his mom and his wife they all deserve their due right.
2026-08-20 07:44:16
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