Theres a difference between overthinking and accusing
2026-08-21 18:07:32
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meisjton :
She said I was ruining her night when I was just trying to make sure that a rumor wasn't correct
2026-09-27 12:28:16
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Kishon⁶𓅓 :
and ohhh I was😂
2026-09-27 17:47:49
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Amber🐍✨ :
Eventually, we really have to learn how to reassure ourselves and self sooth and self regulate. We can’t keep expecting our partners to consistently soothe us, it’s a lot of pressure and creates imbalance.
2026-08-21 13:23:14
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monique04160 :
interesting, what if the constant reassuring is to the point of like …yoooo if you don’t trust me why tf are together? do we still reassure ? thanks chat (:
2026-08-20 23:12:04
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ASH🐛🐝🐞🪲🫧💗 :
I think at a point thought it’s mentally exhausting for the other person especially when nothing has happened to cause it in THAT relationship. When it becomes an everyday thing because of past interactions it’s draining because why am I apologizing for actions I never did. Feelings I never caused. Trust I never lost.
2026-08-21 04:37:18
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akira :
yeah but it gets to a point..
2026-08-21 01:23:13
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bennji.so :
the voices do be right
2026-08-19 23:06:30
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mel 💋 :
Reassurance is healthy and important in relationships but it always gets to a point. Choosing to think badly of your partner or choosing to think your partner would hurt you, or choosing to think that your partner feels something negative towards you. That's not healthy. Yes reassurance is important but when you have reassured someone of something so many times, and they STILL don't believe you, the point of reassurance is gone.
2026-08-21 17:20:27
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jensie :
& i always am
2026-08-20 18:33:57
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B :
If I need reassurance or clarification on something and your first move is to get upset and sow more confusion, I’m going to intuit that I struck and nerve and my instincts were correct.
2026-08-21 18:57:13
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Vex :
But if you keep overthinking all the time then it’s gonna get annoying
2026-08-21 11:39:28
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Clover :
They're mad we figured it out 👀
2026-08-21 00:42:18
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𖣂Jinx𖣂 :
evertime they got mad it turned out I was right.
2026-08-20 20:59:21
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Devn :
YEPPPP
2026-09-26 19:23:48
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Aidan :
Everytime I’ve over thought about something, I’ve always been right about what I was overthinking about😭
2026-08-20 07:01:02
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❤️🌹Angelina🥀❤️ :
it comes to a point where it starts to feel like the over thinkers are just ignoring what we tell them and only listening to themselves and whoever tells them what they think is happening, and I'm saying this as an overthinker myself, shi gets annoying
2026-08-22 03:11:23
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Liz_8Garcia8 :
This but crazy thing is I’m always right. Soooo I will always go with my gut feeling.
2026-08-20 20:02:18
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James :
its cuz you right
2026-08-20 01:23:34
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kcufdlanodpmurt :
it's different if it's the same thing on a weekly basis. I can only reassure so many times until it starts to feel like constant accusations instead of needing reassurance
2026-09-26 18:23:35
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Vanessa :
I’m always right
2026-08-31 19:28:00
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Squemonn :
Nah bro because when it’s a constant everyday “overthinking”, that’s just not being able to handle your own feelings and being too dependent on the other person/turning your own insecurities into someone else’s problem.
2026-08-26 01:41:50
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Exist :
I left my ex for overthinking.
2026-08-23 04:22:13
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🪓loser🪓 :
he’s reassured me 1000 times tho
2026-08-25 12:49:53
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