@stevenmilano: An avoidant in a grown man’s body still argues like a teenager, gaslights like it’s a reflex, and disappears the second accountability shows up. The emotional age never matched the one on his ID. Ready to see exactly what that pattern looks like up close? Red Flag Decoder🚩$47. Linked on my profile.
They even sound like it too… The whining and tantrums
2026-08-20 02:07:04
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JennyO33 :
He started going to therapy and now he has started weaponizing therapy language to get out of conversations
2026-08-20 10:23:15
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Lydia Faye 🌻 :
I realized it's not that I'm asking for too much. It's the fact we aren't on the same maturity level.
2026-08-20 16:28:11
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moan_a_lisaaa :
He goes silent for days…
2026-08-22 14:17:16
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Ethan Maxwell :
I saw my ex’s inner child come out during the breakup. Instead of taking accountability, he used the words “please leave me alone”. He sounded like a wounded child. Still breaks me.
2026-08-20 12:56:48
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Pemba Ferri :
That is narcissism 😅😅😅 they’re stuck at young age
2026-08-19 23:12:01
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Bourgeois Hippie :
Is it that we see them as children due to this arrested development and stay longer than we should ?
2026-09-02 00:18:14
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MyMycelialMind :
Awful lot of these types these days
2026-08-20 00:21:10
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justcause :
I asked him to help with dishes for the first time in 8 years and he threw a literal tantrum... I saw him differently after that
2026-08-21 23:10:09
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Anami62 :
my ex AV saw everything through the 16 year old, athletes eyes from high school. mind you he was 60 but still saw the world through that lens, still saw himself as the gorgeous, football player thst the girls all wanted and I think he expected me to still look like and be the same girl from high school he adored. I grew up. he did not.
2026-08-20 01:37:45
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roseglassnt :
Started recognizing that during the 3 years. It why they also go after younger people.
2026-08-23 16:40:02
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Mr Angry :
Men OR women. My wife is a grown child.
2026-08-21 10:02:15
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TiaFlow 🩺 :
End result..you apologize, they give silent treatment or they threaten to break up cuz that’s easier than changing their habit
2026-09-01 19:23:12
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User$$$455 :
I’ve been saying my husband is like my teenage son who lives in my spare room 💯
2026-08-20 18:27:00
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Shelley :
Omg you nailed it! I even told him I felt like I was dealing with a 15 yr old! All of this!!
2026-08-20 03:53:26
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The Anna Show :
I’ve been divorced from a dismissive avoidant for 2 years and he’s still avoiding taking care of something he should have taken care of 2 years ago AND he’s remarried
2026-08-20 00:44:03
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KrispyCritter1010 :
EXACTLY
2026-09-03 01:20:32
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Monarch 🦋 :
I almost felt guilty for a second...put a stop to that bs immediately.
2026-08-20 00:28:36
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Daria’s Senses :
yeah i literally ended up apologizing for being fucking hurt
2026-08-29 18:01:35
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IvanaJ :
my parents
2026-08-21 14:56:38
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.skidsteer :
He finally admitted he was immature.
2026-08-21 23:48:33
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Farmer :
💯💯
2026-08-21 08:19:45
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K2 :
Yes!exactly!!! I had no idea till I witnessed that myself and I guess that was the end of our relationship
2026-08-20 00:45:38
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888 :
Perfectly said 🙌🏻
2026-08-21 12:30:13
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tami_luvs_music :
My ex
2026-08-20 20:45:00
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