Jon and Ashley Lefrandt
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Thursday 20 August 2026 00:15:19 GMT
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canadianmck🇨🇦 :
You can’t talk about just the parents, many of the adult children are the narcissists or have BPD among so many other mental illnesses. Communication is lacking and they can’t handle their emotions
2026-09-05 23:36:08
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Kiki 🆘🇺🇸 :
Exactly. Just went from low contact to no contact with my parents after explaining to exhaustion how their behavior affects me. I’ve written it so they can see the problem and have an opportunity to fix it. But they won’t. And that’s what they’ve chosen. I love my parents immensely. This is awful for me and I don’t want it to be this way. I think about it everyday. I still speak positively about them because they aren’t 100% toxic. But when they are toxic all of the good doesn’t matter because I’m still being poisoned.
2026-09-05 09:14:18
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Maz :
I shocked myself by my own lucidity and brevity (haha) when I described my decision to my sister in the following way: “They’ve never been interested in me or cared about me. I’m just formalising the situation on my terms, instead of theirs.”
2026-09-06 04:45:51
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Artsy_Therapist :
Wow well said
2026-09-06 00:55:53
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Billy boy :
. Every situation is different . I don’t like these videos blaming one generation
2026-09-04 14:37:04
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emilykhatib :
Boomer narcs vs millennials setting normal boundaries 🫡
2026-08-20 03:24:43
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psychedelia :
the older generation has been cutting off their kids this whole time if they're gay or have a mixed race relationship. when it happens to them, suddenly it's an epidemic.
2026-08-20 05:26:57
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StoneyAdventurez :
The lack of accountability of boomers is what’s happening
2026-08-20 15:06:32
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PandaMommium :
True narcissist is rare. Everyone keeps trying to make everyone into a narcissist.
2026-08-20 21:59:43
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Danny Goodale :
it sounds like an accountability epidemic
2026-08-20 22:19:40
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Nias2cents :
My mother went no/low contact with her family in the mid 80s. My elder siblings went no/low contact with her in the early 2000's. I went no contact with her in 2019. Dysfunctional families have always been around we are just more open to talk about it now.
2026-08-20 15:49:11
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S :
In older generations, people moved away from their parents, joined the military or traveled and never moved back, or just pretty much disappeared if there was a problem. They are upset because there's a label to it now that points fault.
2026-08-20 06:47:51
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Janet Powell541 :
Indeed. I am a Cycle Breaker. Not easy
2026-08-20 13:26:50
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Chelsea Falconer :
Estrangement 👏is 👏 not 👏the👏start👏 of 👏 the 👏 story👏
2026-08-22 02:24:50
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Swanky Hippy :
Patriarchy is a narcissistic pattern which all relations exist inside. We finally have vocabulary and support to see and make different decisions. The “silence to keep the peace” era is over. Age of EXPOSURE. 🖤
2026-08-20 14:03:41
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the slashie life :
It’s not an estrangement trend. It’s a collective spiritual awakening. Good vs evil
2026-08-21 02:37:53
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gypsywind629 :
Boomer is a rebrand. Their parents originally called them the "Me" generation. How did their parents see it so far in advance and what made them like that?
2026-08-21 23:47:29
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𝕷𝖚𝖈𝖗𝖊𝖙𝖎𝖆 𝕸𝖈𝕰𝖛𝖎𝖑 :
They don’t like therapy because therapy is where accountability lies. So they blame therapists because of it
2026-08-20 12:06:54
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user2480743636263 :
I walked away because of years of abuse! Schools wanted me to be in high achieving programs and guess who would not sign the form - my mother because I would be acknowledged as being very smart! She was jealous of me. A mother jealous of their child - that is sick!
2026-08-21 01:34:38
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Archibald :
America is a country of immigrants and pioneers. It was literally built out of people going no contact. If you’re American you shouldn’t feel guilty, it’s a tradition 😂
2026-08-20 21:17:09
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mommadel87 :
the answer to your question about what is happening inside these families is narcissistic abuse.
2026-08-20 15:01:05
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_•_•_ :
The increasingly connected digital age makes it harder to sweep under the rug. I don’t think it’s new but it’s more visible for sure.
2026-08-21 18:04:13
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maybe :
my mom tolerated abusive men, addiction, violence when I was a child because it was her life not mine (her words). when I became an adult and had kids and decided that would not be their life, I was the problem. everyone said I thought I was better than everyone, I was being stuck up. no, I just didn't think I had to have abuse in my life or the lives of my children. I still don't talk to most. of them anymore
2026-08-20 12:16:25
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KLLC :
I’ve seen multiple podcast this week of boomers calling in asking how to cut their children out of the exponential wealth that they’ve managed to stack up. One mother said one of her daughters struggles financially, but she’s also a lesbian so she wants to cut her out. I have put a significant amount of distance between myself and my own parents and the only question I ask myself is why didn’t I do it sooner? That boomer generation is a nasty bunch.
2026-08-20 17:06:21
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MarcyReynoso | Interiorist 🛋️ :
What I’ve been hearing and seeing from this generation of parents and older family members is INSANITY. They are mostly actively and/or passively abusive.
2026-08-20 19:58:19
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